man, such hatred.. it really is scary to think that tihs is the world we live in.. this is far as man has progressed in thousands of years.. sh4t, we really are in trouble..
i am glad that we do have people like ub and ganjagurl who bring a lil common sense to these issues.. thank you both..
of course, i think this guy is completely in the wrong.. i hate to think of the harm that he is doing to his innocent gf who thinks that she is in a mongomous relationship.. forget about the fact that he is sleeping with a guy, he's cheating on his gf, and that is wrong.. plain and simple.. who cares if its w a dude or a chic, or a chic with a dick? i surely don't.. why should i? is that going to make my life any different in one way or another? nada.. who cares.. i just feel bad for the gf, and tihnk he needs to be honest with her at the minimum.. tell her what he's been up to, and if she's ok with it, she can stick around if she wants to, and if she's not, she can bounce.. but he atleast needs to put that option in her hands..