Have You Ever Cheated?

NLNo5

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i am not happy with her at all, and the relationship has progressed to the point of being unhealthy

i make excuses to not hang out with her

i find any reason i can to get out of having sex with her, while at the same time beating off daily

every time we hang out i always let little things go but if i do or say anything wrong god help me


but i CANT fucking break it off for some reason, i physically can not

i used to rationalize this behavior by thinking well i hate being single so im with her so i can be with some one, but now 2 other chicks want my nuts and i still cant fucking do this

maybe i want to get caught, so it cant end this without me having to end this, i dont know

its a pretty fucked up situation
You are not alone...sounds very familiar. You're better off ending it.
 

NLNo5

Active Member
I've had a few drunken moments that I regretted the next day. I was out of country at the time so it never really affected my marriage. But I do regret it, wasn't even much of a good time.

NO MATTER WHAT DON'T ADMIT IT TO YOUR SIG-OTHER. NEVER ADMIT IT EVER UNLESS YOUR CAUGHT DEAD IN YOUR TRACKS.
 

NLNo5

Active Member
You made the right decision! It's hard to lie to people and it's harder to realize when you are lying to yourself. I know how hard it is to do what you did. I was in a similar situation for the last 4 years. My girl was my best friend for almost 10 years and lover for 4, but we ultimately wanted different things in life and it came down to relationship or career for me. It's been almost a year since i broke up with or have seen her and to be honest with you, i still think about how things could have been everyday. I love her and i think i always will. I'm honestly kind of glad i haven't seen her because my heart still flutters sometimes just thinking about her and if i saw her i would probably go weak in the knees, collapse, and pass out. Breaking up with her was probably one of the hardest things i have ever had to do and i've felt selfish for it ever since. I think i would have felt more selfish trying to make her life revolve around my life and career. Although i still would have been happy to have her, i just don't think she would have been as happy if i tried to make her come with me. I just wanted her to be happy and always will, she deserves the best. I guess my point is that you need to think things through as much as possible and put yourself aside sometimes. To this day, i still don't know if what i did was right or if i will regret it until the day i die.
Friend, move on, there is more love out there. Avoid institutionalizing love, keep it free. The best thing you can do is send out best wishes to her and hope she will have the best in life. Then find a new lover.
 

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I've had a few drunken moments that I regretted the next day. I was out of country at the time so it never really affected my marriage. But I do regret it, wasn't even much of a good time.

NO MATTER WHAT DON'T ADMIT IT TO YOUR SIG-OTHER. NEVER ADMIT IT EVER UNLESS YOUR CAUGHT DEAD IN YOUR TRACKS.
lol Id be the asshole to say I was showing her a wrestling move.
 
I did cheat on my boy friend once but that was ages ago. It was way back in high school. I don't know if this counts but I was really drunk that time and I kissed a girl, in front of my boy friend! I got so freaked out for days. Well, he broke up with me the next day. I had another boy friend shortly afterwards, but during weekends or holidays, I get to see my ex boyfriend and our common friends.
 

Padawanbater2

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I did cheat on my boy friend once but that was ages ago. It was way back in high school. I don't know if this counts but I was really drunk that time and I kissed a girl, in front of my boy friend! I got so freaked out for days. Well, he broke up with me the next day. I had another boy friend shortly afterwards, but during weekends or holidays, I get to see my ex boyfriend and our common friends.

That guy sounds mature..

I don't even know if I would consider that really cheating..
 
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