My Hubby is driving me Crazy!

[Louis541]

your husband is a dumbass. those friends of his are dumbasses too. Anyone else who know about there shrooms, is also going to know about your weed, they are probably going to go and tell two friends, who are all going to go and tell two friends as long as it's "between them" Soon everyone is going to know your buisiness, hurry up and harvest, and don't grow again, for a long ass time.

 

[poplars]

your husband is a dumbass. those friends of his are dumbasses too. Anyone else who know about there shrooms, is also going to know about your weed, they are probably going to go and tell two friends, who are all going to go and tell two friends as long as it's "between them" Soon everyone is going to know your buisiness, hurry up and harvest, and don't grow again, for a long ass time.

yep, pretty fuckin much.

I say instead of venting you should shut down your grow for a few months and kick that fuck to the curb.

 

[hazorazo]

At least he is not sleeping around. Just have another talk with him, and make sure he understands that the more people that know, the more risk you take on, and the less security you will feel in your own home.

I am a medical patient, and I keep my carbon filter running, and my mouth filter running.

 

[Louis541]

yep, pretty fuckin much.

I say instead of venting you should shut down your grow for a few months and kick that fuck to the curb.

That's going kinda far don't you think? weed does not trump an otherwise healthy relationship.

 

[Richard Smith]

if i were you id hit him a slap! and then refuse to have sex untill he shuts up

 

[kevin]

usually it's a thread about an ex girlfriend running her mouth. tell your husband to put a sock in it before your both sitting in the county lock up.

 

[woodsmaneh!]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ You tell him the next person he tells your going to blow, he won't like that and will shut up. Cut him off for a couple weeks as a time out. Discuss the #1 rule never tell anyone ever. Lets face it if you get caught and go to jail how the fuck is he going to feel. If he loves you he will understand. I know of what I speak, I shoot my mouth off too much, not anymore my wife and boys had a chat with me. So I just bite my lip when people start talking about growing and act dumb. In fact I moved because too many people knew my business, hard lesson to learn.

Interesting point about relationships, most people who get busted are turned in my better half/girlfriend, just ask a lawyer.

 

[poplars]

That's going kinda far don't you think? weed does not trump an otherwise healthy relationship.

if she's growing in an illegal state then I think it is something worth considering. fuck getting busted because of someone's flappy mouth.

if it's a medical state then yeah she should keep it up, as being robbed isn't as worrysome as getting arrested....

 

[Louis541]

weed, the only plant worth getting a divorce over?

 

[StonedPony]

Well you need to have a long talk and explain about getting busted if he loves you he will see what you are saying......if he continues then the best thing to do is split up with him.........sorry but I drather give up on him then spend 10 years in jail because he cant shut the fuck up. You could move in with me and I give you the back part of the house for your grow room and I wont say a word cause My grow room is in the front and I damn sure dont want to go to jail...........bring your own vibrator Im in love with my girlfriend but I dont mind helping out LOL..........OR there is one last thing..........Become a Jehova Witness and drive him nuts till he leaves ..................

 

[Total Head]

weed, the only plant worth getting a divorce over?

i hear you. it's not like it's some barfly she woke up next to. these people have planned a life together. and i'm assuming since the op didn't complain about what an asshole the husband is otherwise that they probably have a pretty decent relationship outside of this. that being said, maybe growing is not for you guys. the sealed lips rule isn't really optional, and a grow op is a really shitty reason to split up an otherwise healthy relationship.

 

[El420]

I say you check that fool