Well I first gave them a shower down, rubbed down the leaves and tried to shake as much water off the plants as I could, without damaging them. The next day there was a few but not as much as there was, I sprayed the soap based stuff diluted with water ALL over the plants, under leaves and tried to avoid big bug spots. The day after I cleaned out the room, top to bottom alcohol wipe down, Plants checked and seeing hardly anything I still sprayed the eco-neem over the plants and around the room. I ordered Mite-Rid also off ebay, should be here Monday (4 days from last spraying), So I will spray the plants and room again. Might even give them another hit of the eco-neem tomorrow. The plants are doing a lot better and I've noticed lower leaves staying healthy. I thought it was a phosphorus def. Maybe the mites was the problem. I will post pictures over the weekend.
Sure about them being red mites? I hope so, I have had these things outdoors couple years ago, they didn't seem to damage THAT much but the webbing was quite noticeable. Back then I didn't really care because it was my first grow and experimenting, thinking they were going to go to shit anyway and I also didn't realise what bugs they were and just brushed them off.
Thanks everyone for the info.