Friends with Sexy Benefits ;)

80mg

80mg

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But yeah...my personal advice is just like stoned ponys. Its just human nature to get attached to someone after sex. Very hard not too unless its a one night thing. so keep that in mind. Mabe have a tal kwith the lucky guy and explain that you just wanna be friends. Im sure he'll dig it...
 
GanJulia

GanJulia

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sso said:
what was his response to "Next morning he was like "you didn't stay the night?" Im like no, were not like that...hahaha!
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Well it was a text message, haha. I left that night, then the next morning he texted me you didn't stay the night? And I said nah I left before morning. Then conversation ensued but im pretty sure he was just surprised I didn't pass out with him (he was drunk, i was sorta drunk and sex sobered me up).

I dont know anymore guys, a while ago it seemed like an O.K. idea and now im having second thoughts. Im remembering how he can sometimes be a pain to be around and really shallow.. In the beginning i was using him being a jerk as a defense but now im starting to think maybe I'm overlooking that more than I should be. I don't want the guy that im occasionally enjoying sex with to wear me down and either seriously piss me off or just get annoying...

I need a stoner :(

OH and haha, I am not a NY girl i'm a whole lot closer to the capital than that ;)
 
80mg

80mg

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GanJulia said:
Well it was a text message, haha. I left that night, then the next morning he texted me you didn't stay the night? And I said nah I left before morning. Then conversation ensued but im pretty sure he was just surprised I didn't pass out with him (he was drunk, i was sorta drunk and sex sobered me up).

I dont know anymore guys, a while ago it seemed like an O.K. idea and now im having second thoughts. Im remembering how he can sometimes be a pain to be around and really shallow.. In the beginning i was using him being a jerk as a defense but now im starting to think maybe I'm overlooking that more than I should be. I don't want the guy that im occasionally enjoying sex with to wear me down and either seriously piss me off or just get annoying...

I need a stoner :(

OH and haha, I am not a NY girl i'm a whole lot closer to the capital than that ;)
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Nice edit lolol at the bottom. I quoted you and that magicly appeared XD

Damn upstate thats bunz (the mastic term for lame)....but yeah IDK like if you feel "weared down" NOT good idea but if you enjoy it and can keep it un complicated go for it....balls in your court really. But drunk sex almost never ends good.
 
GanJulia

GanJulia

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80mg said:
But drunk sex almost never ends good.
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Ah yes I agree! But when he hit me up again he specifically said we wouldnt be getting drunk like he wanted sober sex, so that was a little weird too... cause he loves to drink and loosen up like that. Ah I dunno sketchy situation now.. im analyzing it too much. I just shouldn't do it lol :-P
 
Louis541

Louis541

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Now it sounds like you don't want to do it. :p

A piece of advice I use all the time. Flip a coin.

Not because it works, but because in that second the coin is in the air, you know how you want it to land.
 
80mg

80mg

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GanJulia said:
Ah yes I agree! But when he hit me up again he specifically said we wouldnt be getting drunk like he wanted sober sex, so that was a little weird too... cause he loves to drink and loosen up like that. Ah I dunno sketchy situation now.. im analyzing it too much. I just shouldn't do it lol :-P
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Yeah for real the only way to really analyze this situation is to have sex with me. Because I'm completely neutral in this situation and will let you know my honest opinion after...
 
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StonedPony

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Well GranJUlia has been my lover for a few months now and she is very sweet and sexy..........and I will approve of any decission she makes................get her to show you her third nipple.
 
IregAt420

IregAt420

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.....ahh I was gonna come throw some advice in...too late.

Looks like I missed a good thread at first....

Well, GJ, hope you make the right choice.

Ive never done the friends with benefits thing, altho the first time I broke up with my ex she talked me into coming over to get it one more time....

Lets just say here I am a year and a half later heart broken, left with nothing, because I thought with my dick.
 
GanJulia

GanJulia

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:hug: :D I flipped the coin, and it landed on NO sex, and I was happy with it. Usually I flip it again if I know i want it the other way. One flip, done. I can do much better anyways :)
 
Vento

Vento

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medicalmaryjane said:
quite cute! you just need to sex it up and show some tit. we all have a skin fetish.
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You must have missed the tits and ass thread we have had this week :)..lol

Anyways...I have to say , This topic is a good thing to help guys here to see how girls think ... and what really stands out here is how open and straight forward Ganjulia is about it ...I like that :)

Why can't all women be like this ? hehe

Bit harsh to flip on it .... but if it works it works .... Hope the guy is not to upset by it .

so now ... back to the tits ... :)
 
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