51 hours left to live ...

Puffer Fish

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Hello friends .... today I open a window to a fleeting life.
Our hero at hand is a Cancer patient with 51 hrs to live ...

The person is holding an Open Thread ... I invite you to this experience ...

On Tuesday I'll finally end my battle with cancer thanks to Oregon's Death with dignity act. As part of my preparations I've ended my pain medication and am trying to regain what little dignity and clarity I can.
Who I was doesn't matter. I'm in pain, I'm tired and I'm finally being granted a small shred of respect. Feel free to AMA if you're so inclined.
Follow here ...



Happy Travels Dear Friend.
 
I don't know whether to be happy because they have the choice to go as they choose, or to be sad because they (seemingly) only have people on the internet to reach out to.

Either way, it takes a strong person to make a decision like that. I don't think I could. At least at this stage in my life.
 

Puffer Fish

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Internet is but a bridge.
I can never say that I know you Daath ... but I bet I know more of you
than some of the physical entities ... in your everyday life.

Internet is but a tool like-minded people use to communicate.


:)
 

Puffer Fish

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Haha ... I love reddit and ents but
I am far from one !

Growing trees is like growing tomatoes ... really nothing to it.

;)

Hello brother !
I Reddit !
 
Internet is but a bridge.
I can never say that I know you Daath ... but I bet I know more of you
than some of the physical entities ... in your everyday life.

Internet is but a tool like-minded people use to communicate.


:)
True. I thought about that too. There is something to this mental bridge that one doesn't always get in the flesh. The fear of persecution is almost eliminated. But you also can't replace fleshy human contact.

Your monitor can't hug you, and sometimes there are things that cannot be said through words.
 

Puffer Fish

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That is true in every sense of the word dear sir !!
No comparisons might be drawn bwn physical contact
and soothing sound of human voice.

But I tripped on things with my friends across the world
and we communicated in pictures and music ... text and substances.

:)

And u need a device for that either way !!
We had a great time.
I can't do that with my own brother in the flesh.
 

plantvision

Active Member
I am seldom out of something to say. But now............. Peace to all!!!!!!! Really puts a perspective on things
 

Puffer Fish

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I am seldom out of something to say. But now............. Peace to all!!!!!!! Really puts a perspective on things
I completely agree plantvision. This is both inspirational and humbling.

Thanks for sharing Puff!
Thank you for taking the time to investigate ... I enjoy sharing emotions with friends !

Daath ... Think about this ...

When you are born ... you are alone
And when you die .... you are alone

At these two moments ... in your life
You are truly
connected to all .... and nothing ....
in an instant.

:)
 

sebastopolian

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Hey puffer what a wonderful thing that u are doing. So true, " Nothing we have is worth hurting anyone else for". I am sending "hugs" and tons of respect for such a brave hero! Peace forever!
 

CaNNaBiZ CaNucK

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I just want to put the Love out there for Lucidending. Peace be with You and Rest well, Friend.

I think it's marvelous that people in dire need have the option, thanks in part to the pioneer Freedom Fighters like Kevorkian.

Those interested in the issue should check out "You Don't Know Jack".
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Gold medal bong hits

Active Member
I also saw this on reddit today. I think that is why I really enjoy that website. They have a such amazing community not saying riu isnt. Which is why i believe this person shared the story with them knowing people would care . /trees love =)
 

Kush Pu$her

Member
well dont know what of much to say but i know i want to say something. passing on is just a part of life we all have to face one way or the other there is no way around it. my mother did the same and we all love and respect what she had to go thru in life with health and in passing, its sad we live in such an advanced world of medicine and tech where we could live healthier and longer but money plays a bigger toll for those who hold those powers. i hope life has been good to enough, even tho i hate the way certain things go that i have no say over i still love life and hope to get the most of it good or bad till my time comes. Bless you my friend and may your travels be easy, GOD giving, loving and uplifting. i do believe the physical life is just a stage we must travel thru and the bigger picture is much greater. Much LOVE and Respect
 

Saerimmner

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Death is nothing at all...
I have only slipped away to the next room...
I am I and you are you...
Whatever we were to each, that we are still.

Call me by my old familiar name,
Speak it to me in the same way you always used.
Put no difference into your tone,
Wear no false air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me, pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect, without the ghost of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same as it ever was.
There is absolutely unbroken continuity.
What is this death but a negligible accident.

I am but waiting for you for an interval
Somewhere very near
Just around the corner.
All is well.

Henry Scott Holland 1847 - 1918
Canon of St Paul's, London
 

plantvision

Active Member
Wow that is a poem, I kept reading it over and over and over, it incapsulates alot of my believes of death. I have just slipped into another room, think of me as I was still there, don't agonize of my moving on, and I will be waiting for you soon you will becoming also. So crazy yet so true. Just another journey!!!!!!! Thanks for sharing.

I entered RIU planning on learning more about MJ, but I truly have met some people that have made my mind think, I thank you for that. I am that tough person, I am that hurting soul, the one that gets hit with emotions from poems like this.
 

Puffer Fish

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This is a great poem indeed.
I have attended one funeral last wk and have
one to go to tomorrow.

I will copy this poem out
and give it to the perfect
person ...

Thank you friend for bringing
it here for us to share !
 

Saerimmner

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this is the original version that was tidied up to become the more commonly used version that i posted before
“Death is nothing at all. It does not count. I have only slipped away into the next room. Nothing has happened. Everything remains exactly as it was. I am I, and you are you, and the old life that we lived so fondly together is untouched, unchanged. Whatever we were to each other, that we are still. Call me by the old familiar name. Speak of me in the easy way which you always used. Put no difference into your tone. Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow. Laugh as we always laughed at the little jokes that we enjoyed together. Play, smile, think of me, pray for me. Let my name be ever the household word that it always was. Let it be spoken without an effort, without the ghost of a shadow upon it. Life means all that it ever meant. It is the same as it ever was. There is absolute and unbroken continuity. What is this death but a negligible accident? Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? I am but waiting for you, for an interval, somewhere very near, just round the corner. All is well. Nothing is hurt; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before. How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!”
 
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