For the Marrried Ones

[akgrown]

So I just got done watching the movie hall pass. It was really funny but it got me thinking. What would I do? I check out girls here and there with or with out my girl but I just really think I would have the hardest time dropping marriage for a week and being with a women other than my wife. IDK maybe I am just crazy but I think I would rather never be presented with the option. So i guess my question is how would you feel, what would you do...hypothetically?

 

[Auzzie07]

If the wife ever presented it to you, it's probably a test. Don't fall for that, and to quote Admiral Ackbar:

 

[chillwills]

I dont know why people even bother to get married in the first place. With a close to 60% divorce rate, whats the point?

 

[akgrown]

I dont know why people even bother to get married in the first place. With a close to 60% divorce rate, whats the point?

Well thanks for your pessimistic outlook on marriage but that was not the question in the first place.

 

[chillwills]

Well thanks for your pessimistic outlook on marriage but that was not the question in the first place.

Sorry, I guess I'm in a bit of a negative mood lately.

If I was married and my wife offered that to me, I would act like she was crazy for even offering.

Like the above poster said, Its more than likely a trap. In reality I don't know of any women who would let their man sleep with another woman. and vice versa. Lol

 

[Smokey11]

TRAP!!! IF my wife came up w/ some bullshit like that I would start to worry..... Like she wants to be w/ another man for a bit so I can be with another woman....TRAP!!!

EDIT: I said that backwards but yeah!! TRAP

 

[StonedPony]

you lose no matter how you answer.................pretend loss of hearing and run like hell...................but if you had a ex whife like mine swaping with a dead skunk would be an upgrade.

 

[bajafox]

I dont know why people even bother to get married in the first place. With a close to 60% divorce rate, whats the point?

I'm old school and I welcome the challenge of being part of the 40%. I try to make my wife happy every minute of every day no matter how much she pisses me off. In return our second bedroom has a DR120 and a DR120W in it, I thank her for sticking by me during the hardest time of my life. She should have ran off the day I got laid off, 3 weeks before our wedding and the same day I was going to make a second offer on a house. Instead we live in a shitty apartment in a shitty neighborhood.

If my wife gave me a hall pass I would hit up Attitude and the hydro shop and spend every single minute of that week in my grow room

 

[chillwills]

I'm old school and I welcome the challenge of being part of the 40%. I try to make my wife happy every minute of every day no matter how much she pisses me off. In return our second bedroom has a DR120 and a DR120W in it, I thank her for sticking by me during the hardest time of my life. She should have ran off the day I got laid off, 3 weeks before our wedding and the same day I was going to make a second offer on a house. Instead we live in a shitty apartment in a shitty neighborhood.

If my wife gave me a hall pass I would hit up Attitude and the hydro shop and spend every single minute of that week in my grow room

I hear that! I feel the same way. Marriage is supposed to be for life. Its not some experiment that you "hope" will have a good outcome.

But who knows. I'm not married so I guess my opinion on the matter is void.

It just seems too many people get married for all the wrong reasons.

I have NO problem whatsoever being single for my entire life, if thats how things should happen to turn out. I think too many people get married because of pressure or fear.

 

[tricka]

i couldnt possibly think about it....shit when i go away with boys for a long weekend after about a week i miss her so much i wanna head back.

 

[Slojo69]

i couldnt possibly think about it....shit when i go away with boys for a long weekend after about a week i miss her so much i wanna head back.

lol, I can't even go away for an hour lol. I have to be at home and in bed when she is ready for bed, I'm whipped i know lol. But about this topic ... oh boy, this should never come out in a relationship, but you said hypothetically, soooo. If i was with someone that said "Do whatever you want for a week" well then, lol. I wouldn't do anything that would really jeopardize the relationship however, I would go to TOWN on some video games, take that weekend mentioned by tricka lol, few other things, however on the flip side, if you are in a happy relationship, you would want to do things with that person. I mean it kinda sucks doing things without the wife sometimes. But to have a fling is to admit yer not satisfied with yer wife and if thats the case, why are you even married. So to sum it up, Fling = don't wanna be married anymore