I think we all know when you get to that point in a situation that is not going to be resolved through words alone, this is the time to strike first with no questions asked. Like Marlowe said, people tend not to mess with you after situations like that. Upon thinking of it, what I said before is ridiculous, you go to that boys house, you look him in the eye, you don't say a word. You know he's going to be up in your face. That's when you sharply pull your head back about an inch and power drive your forehead into his nose. No matter what size that boy is, he will be hitting the deck and will not be able to see for love nor money. Then it's up to you if you take it further. Walk away, or steam in a bit more, haha. Or you could just forget it, learn your lesson and move on/away from your area. Anyway, your choice mate, just don't put yourself into a situation you will regret even further....after all, you have your freedom and your lovely lady. And plants grow again.
Peace, DST