Oh yes the wheel chair days, I was walking across a street and was hit by a fleetwood caddilac and destrowed its windsheild with my forehead. I was in a wheel chair too, so now what? Your not giving up on shit, your doing whats right.. Lets put it this way, Fuck you, fuck me, fuck your son.. we are nothing, can do nothing, and act like we know everything. In a bare handed knuckle fight with a bear, we would all lose and have are tesclicles eatin by badgers. Past that how are you gonna pick and choose what you fail at? You either can or you cant/ cant-yet. All you know is what you have seen and been told. From what you say, your daddy never hit you and your kin do great.. well now you have seen that hitting doesnt work. Well now you squirt out this little terror and he rocks out with his cock out with no supprise hes been doing it all his life. Some people need that physical education, your son from what you told us sound like that kind of person.
If he had been in jail times before, did you bail him out or let him figure it out? He has been this way a long time you said, so why didnt you do something about it a long time ago..... hes 30.. 15 yrs ago he was just a retarded teen, wiht nobody whoopin his ass im sure it made him feel like a big man. Also with you being in a wheel chair, with a stash, and a gun than your not mr.perfect either.. so its ok to do drugs but not hit your kid? Your son knows you do drugs, you know your son does drugs.. I bet hes even got some of his drugs from you.. that shows me that you have that kind of household.. one where drugs and stealing are ok but never hitting.. give me a fucking break!
His ass needs what god gives him! Every time you play captain dad and give in a little you might as well kiss him goodbye. Obama is in office so the worse that can happen is he gets 3 square meals a day either in prison or a shelter. Maybe you need to watch a few episodes of intervention.
I never say just beat them.. only take it as far as they want to take it.. if you raise a kid that robbed you is destroying your family life than obviously there wasnt a mental tool taught to him to make better decisions. It takes alot more balls to discipline your child than a time out, if they need it. For you to say beating kids= lazy parenting makes you a moron, because in NO WAY beating your kids a parenting style.. btw you can whoop your childs hide 2 times and it feel like a beating to them.