Does this Count as a Date?

MsBBB

MsBBB

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Urca said:
eh yeah there will be other dates, he just basically said however that there will not be a relationship because he lives over an hour away and even though he likes me, long distance relationships dont work. but he still wants to see me when he can.
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I like that this guy let you know up front that there will be "no" relationship. I don't buy into the reason, but at least he let you know in the beginning. I don't see driving an hour to see someone special as a reason for not getting and being more seriously involved. I have had jobs where I drove over an hour one way on a daily basis. Then you say that there will be other dates, long distance relationships don't work, but he still wants to see you when he can. Doesn't sound right to me, tread carefully.
 
NoGutsGrower

NoGutsGrower

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MsBBB said:
I like that this guy let you know up front that there will be "no" relationship. I don't buy into the reason, but at least he let you know in the beginning. I don't see driving an hour to see someone special as a reason for not getting and being more seriously involved. I have had jobs where I drove over an hour one way on a daily basis. Then you say that there will be other dates, long distance relationships don't work, but he still wants to see you when he can. Doesn't sound right to me, tread carefully.
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Msbbb Is right! Not going to lie, in my younger days I did the same thing (3 times)! A guy saying "lets just be friends" usually means They do just want to be friends and won't try to get your pants off or are just saying it to make you want to take them off to get him to stay! People do crazy thing to get the other one to stay around. Hate cock blocking another guy but if he says you are just friends DO NOT sleep with him! It will only lower his opinion of you! I'm waiting for my 25 or younger self to show up and kick my ass for telling you that!
 
MsBBB

MsBBB

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NoGutsGrower said:
Msbbb Is right! Not going to lie, in my younger days I did the same thing (3 times)! A guy saying "lets just be friends" usually means They do just want to be friends and won't try to get your pants off or are just saying it to make you want to take them off to get him to stay! People do crazy thing to get the other one to stay around. Hate cock blocking another guy but if he says you are just friends DO NOT sleep with him! It will only lower his opinion of you! I'm waiting for my 25 or younger self to show up and kick my ass for telling you that!
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There is nothing wrong with being honest by letting your intentions be known, I wish more people did that. What we do with that information is another matter. Some of us women think that our stuff is so good that once at man gets it, that alone will change a man's mind. Not so, that only works on a few men or those that are truly in love. You are also right NoGutsGrower, men can be masters when it comes to getting sex. Don't worry about kicking yourself in the butt, she's not going to listen anyway. Young lust can make smart women dumber than a door knob. Hell, some of us older women are still falling for the okeydoke. LOL
 
thedoc08

thedoc08

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Note to self: when you're hammered fat girls are a formidable opponent on the interwebs.

My head feels worse than Osama's, why am I up at 8am?
 
mellokitty

mellokitty

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uh, yeah, IME that sounds like the ol' "let's be fwb's" line....
which is a definite "line in the sand" that you want to consider carefully before stepping over... especially if YOU really like the guy.
 
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c0lchester

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he's trying to turn you into a FB I think, if your okay with that it's cool. he may also be using you to inflate his own ego... or I may be reading it wrong and he might be into you but just be treading lightly beacuse you don't have much expirence
 
Urca

Urca

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c0lchester said:
he's trying to turn you into a FB I think, if your okay with that it's cool. he may also be using you to inflate his own ego... or I may be reading it wrong and he might be into you but just be treading lightly beacuse you don't have much expirence
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yeah i get you, i dont really know what he wants
 
medicalmaryjane

medicalmaryjane

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Urca said:
yeah i get you, i dont really know what he wants
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men aren't too difficult to figure out. they all want the same few things...

dont trust any of them until you find your soul mate and you will know because he won't play any games and you will never be apart.
 
UncleBuck

UncleBuck

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april said:
Sorry dude your not much to look at, muscles don't make ya good looking!! only reason i liked your post was to be nice and support anyone who decided to join in the fun, but your attitude makes u very ugly so i used the unlike button, dear lord your sexy latina g/f must be one hell of a fake ass bitch, the ladies on here are real, no puffy hair, thinned eyebrowd brown lipped mouthy sluts. And i'm guessing dog meat is what her breath smells like after kissing your foul mouth. I am done with u
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you hit the nail on the head. he is also an admitted thief and an anti-semite.
 
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