No they don't due to exstensive breeding schemes, maybe the most dominant would be listed first but i see no preference, there is no reason for any breeder to list what was male and female, feminised crosses do not adhere to any male dominance either.
You seem to think that a strain can be made from a single cross from a male and female, good luck there, wed all be doing it if it was that easy, a cross will produce different phenotypes and both male and female plants, the breeder takes the male and female and breeds these together to pick out the strongest and most to his liking, he then dose that with another strain, he breeds the best and crosses them so there is no real father or mother and even if there was that was a lot of generations ago for the breeder so he dosent care less or give a hoot what is listed first on the strain guide.
If you wanted to make a new strain of big bud and crossed it with haze you would list the big bud first being the dominant phenotypes that showed through.
Hope you can understand this, not quite as simple as you at first think, like asking which came first the chicken or the egg. Peace