How do you say whats hard to say?

[BendBrewer]

i dont want to fuck things up... or make the person mad

Why not? People fuck things up and make people mad all the time. It rarely matters much. Go ahead and fail fucking miserably. Would be a good lesson for you. You can't do what is right without trying and you aren't going to try and not fuck things up sometimes. You need to start getting used to it. Go fall on your face. You'll be ok. Trust me.

Or do nothing and wallow in your own shit while you drag the RIU community into it. Your choice.

 

[girlfriday]

i am, but i dont know how to say it... i don't want to drive the person away

Take a deep breath, try and stay calm and just say it. You said they hurt you - you have the right to express how you feel, don't worry about driving the person away.

 

[Urca]

You're this upset for some wrong-doing?? Your life is goin to full of disappointments....

If you are lying in bed crying over it then THEY are not worth it. If THEY don't realize (or care) that whatever they did hurt you (and it seems like they should, as big a deal as you are making this) you will not ever get any satisfaction from an apology.

Fuck em. THEY are not worth this much fuckin drama. You will see when you get older....

Its basically something that wasnt done, and it made me feel cheap and like i was just being used.

 

[Urca]

Why not? People fuck things up and make people mad all the time. It rarely matters much. Go ahead and fail fucking miserably. Would be a good lesson for you. You can't do what is right without trying and you aren't going to try and not fuck things up sometimes. You need to start getting used to it. Go fall on your face. You'll be ok. Trust me.

Or do nothing and wallow in your own shit while you drag the RIU community into it. Your choice.

fine. i sent a text saying call me when you wake up. lets see how it goes.

 

[auldone]

You probably were being used... Like I said, NOT FRIENDS. FUCK EM.

 

[fdd2blk]

Its basically something that wasnt done, and it made me feel cheap and like i was just being used.

he pushed on the back of your head, didn't he?

 

[jonblaze420]

 

[Urca]

^ not getting into details here

 

[auldone]

he pushed on the back of your head, didn't he?

ahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....

 

[RawBudzski]

You're upset because he did not kiss you after & tell you that he loves you. Did I get it.

 

[Urca]

You're upset because he did not kiss you after & tell you that he loves you. Did I get it.

nope. i know he doesnt love me, i wouldnt ask him to tell me.

 

[RawBudzski]

He got it in your hair.?. I know how girls feel about that.

 

[Johnny Retro]

probably did it in her mouth without warning her

 

[Urca]

Nope, not it. I dont feel like saying it, cause I honestly am ashamed

 

[olylifter420]

^^^ she is obviously ignoring the great advice and life lessons we are sharing with her, no wonder stupid shit like this happens to you all the time, you obviously are following the wrong advice!

 

[RawBudzski]

He stuck his thumb in your butt.

 

[jonblaze420]

It's okay Urca just tell us the truth and everyone will stop their wild guessing, and maybe offer you support and sympathy.

 

[auldone]

Did he lie and stick more than just the head in???

 

[......]

stuck it in your ass with no lube?

 

[Urca]

^^^ she is obviously ignoring the great advice and life lessons we are sharing with her, no wonder stupid shit like this happens to you all the time, you obviously are following the wrong advice!

what? i said i would say it, asap, when i get a call. ill just be blunt and ask... how is that not following advice?