How To Break It To My Mom?

[Louis541]

tell them both to get bent, listen to your moma on this one.

It's not too often good advice comes from a tweaker. Don't waste it.
You'd be better off giving it to her. At least that way you're not sitting around waiting for it to come back.

 

[racerboy71]

fuck my dad and him are asking me to help him...

i don't get it urca, he's got two jobs, you've got nada, how long would it take for him to save up his own cash?? not very long working two jobs imo.. you live with your mom, who cares what your dad wants you to do, lol.. seriously though, don't do it girl..

 

[ganjames]

you're giving money to a sibling in a different state?

and you think you're going to get paid back?


... lol

 

[Urca]

he only has one job now.

 

[racerboy71]

he only has one job now.

that's one more than you have urca...

 

[ganjames]

so what happens when this cheap ass car breaks down in a month or two and he can't afford to get it fixed.


this is the most important rule in life when it comes to money and i want everyone to write this down in their minds:

DON'T BUY THINGS YOU CANNOT AFFORD.

 

[april]

what does he spend his money on? why cant HE finance a car and have ur dad sign , sorry something seems off here lmfao

 

[a mongo frog]

what does he spend his money on? why cant HE finance a car and have ur dad sign , sorry something seems off here lmfao

he spends alot of money on prostitutes. not his fault though, hes addicted.

 

[racerboy71]

what does he spend his money on? why cant HE finance a car and have ur dad sign , sorry something seems off here lmfao

that's what i'm saying april.. i mean, how hard is it for him to scrape up $1200 or whatever it is?? where's all of his cash going, and why's he depending on some one with no job for money?? talk about ass backwards..

 

[hazed06]

So why did u start a thread asking a ? when u already have your mind made up????????????

 

[Carne Seca]

Your brother may get mad but he'll get over it. What is going to happen when you can't afford college and need to get a job? Then you will end up quitting college and start working full time. If he has one job then your dad can take him back and forth to work. That's 20 or 30 minutes out of his day. Don't do it Urca. It's a bad decision you are going to regret.

 

[april]

he spends alot of money on prostitutes. not his fault though, hes addicted.

Or twinkies, people like twinkies

 

[Carne Seca]

Or twinkies, people like twinkies

ummm.... no.. gonna let that one slide.

 

[Hepheastus420]

Damn I called this! I even predicted it would be in a loan. Why do people always do this with student grants? It's always a loan.

Yeah I had my doubts she would securely control her cash too.

 

[april]

ohhh....yes.. gonna let that one slide right in .

...........

 

[Urca]

Yeah I had my doubts she would securely control her cash too.

i havent actually given the money yet

 

[ganjames]

i havent actually given the money yet

if you didn't have this money would you get a job, earn $1200 and then send it to your brother?

 

[Carne Seca]

...........

guuuurrrrl..

 

[Nusky]

if he can't get a loan from a bank then why would you loan him anything at all? The bank didn't do it for a reason.

 

[RawBudzski]

KEEP YOUR MONEY ! Do not give it away !

Ok so i already mentioned i was getting 2500 in financial aid in about two weeks. well, my brother and i had a long talk today, and im loaning him 1200 bucks so he can get a car. the bank wouldnt give him the loan, but he needs a car really bad.
his old car went out on him, and now he has to take my dad's car to his work, but the thing is my bro works full time so my dad never gets to use his own car.
he and i agreed on a payment schedule of 100 bucks a month until im paid back.

my mom is gonna flip though, idk how to tell her. any ideas? she's gonna be pissed