losing people

Padawanbater2

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Never lost someone over weed, I've had drama involved with weed, but no lost friendships or anything like that. However, I have lost a friend over money.
 

tip top toker

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Losing someone is a weird way to put it. But a few years back i made the effort of getting across the conutry after a long days work on christmas even to visit the family, i don't like drinking champagne for breakfast so i took a few joints with me. When my older brother was informed (lawyer in training thinks he knows the world) he went mental and started making things up out of thin air about how i was putting him in jeopardy (i know the law with regard to what was being said so knew that it was bull). Needless to say i told him to fuck himself and have not spoken to him since. It's no big deal at all though so don't really see it as losing someone. There are plenty more folk to talk to if i fancy some company.

any issues with friends i've encountered has been purely because of prejudice and ignorance, that is to say them mouthing off when they have not smoked any kind of quantity to be able to reasonably make the point they are making, they usually get taught how things are fairly swiftly.
 

silasraven

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i know what you mean. except there is no one to talk to in my case. if i lose someone i never regain another
 

RC7

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one time i met a friend...we talked for a while i liked him for the most part...then maybe a few months down the road he said he wanted to get an oz and he would flip it for profit...and we would split the profit. so i pretty much gave him the money and he fucked up the plan and only sort of payed me back in shitty little payments of like 60 $ items and shit i had to re-sell myself...i was young at the time only in 10th grade this was a while ago but yeah...thats my story. the most ironic part is when we met we were talking about how alot of friendships end over money and his exact words" i hope that doesn't happen with us"...
 

Prefontaine

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how the fuck so you lose friends and family over weed? please do tell about your experience.
I GOT CUT OFF from any kind of financial assistance when my mom busted me for it at like 19, but i didnt lose her, hell she still calls me just to nag.
 

tip top toker

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one time i met a friend...we talked for a while i liked him for the most part...then maybe a few months down the road he said he wanted to get an oz and he would flip it for profit...and we would split the profit. so i pretty much gave him the money and he fucked up the plan and only sort of payed me back in shitty little payments of like 60 $ items and shit i had to re-sell myself...i was young at the time only in 10th grade this was a while ago but yeah...thats my story. the most ironic part is when we met we were talking about how alot of friendships end over money and his exact words" i hope that doesn't happen with us"...
Haha, i know that feeling, no doubt the old "but there so much there that i can smoke a pinch and it won't matter" :D
 

silasraven

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what a dick, i let this dude crash here and his cuz in cali had a pot farm so i paid 1800 to help him get the QP. it worked out for a while untill the dude sold 2 O's for 6 and when he got back to my room i had to tell him i got fucked over cause the money was fake. what kind of dealer cant tell fake by the way it feels? worst part i hardly smoke any of it. i was so pissed.
 

silasraven

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I GOT CUT OFF from any kind of financial assistance when my mom busted me for it at like 19, but i didnt lose her, hell she still calls me just to nag.
i dont even talk to my mom, after smoking heavey for weeks something clicked and i realized so much shit that i ignored and stuck up for her. now i wont give either parent my address.
 

bigbillyrocka

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never lost anyone off it. but then again im new to smoking it. :) my dads birthday today, hes turning 65! so im getting him high off my very own homegrown stuff. :)
 

420God

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I was friends with a neighbor of my sister and we smoked together for a few years.

He was an older Veteran and seemed interested in growing for himself so he didn't have to rely on anyone.

I told him I'd show him because I didn't like him asking me for weed all the time and that I only grow for myself.

Being that I grew I decided to show him how and got him all set up, even gave him some seedlings to get him going.

A few weeks into the grow he told me it wasn't for him and he trashed everything because he was paranoid.

The very next day he called me up and had the audacity to ask me if he could buy some pot.

I haven't talked to the guy since.
 

Charlie Who?

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Never lost a friend over weed, but I often choose to not make non-smokers friends in the first place. Why bother?

Soon as I discover a person is either a non-head or a republican, Im pretty much not interested.

One exception is a dude I met last week at a Folk Art Festival. His paintings were so far out, LOL. One of them, I said, "Man...I wish I had some of whatever you were smoking when you painted that one."

He said, "I dont use drugs. I AM a drug."

I thought he was pretty cool.

CW

CW
 

RobbieP

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Never lost a friend over weed, but I often choose to not make non-smokers friends in the first place. Why bother?

Soon as I discover a person is either a non-head or a republican, Im pretty much not interested.

One exception is a dude I met last week at a Folk Art Festival. His paintings were so far out, LOL. One of them, I said, "Man...I wish I had some of whatever you were smoking when you painted that one."

He said, "I dont use drugs. I AM a drug."

I thought he was pretty cool.

CW

CW
was it charlie sheen ??
lmao ..
 

silasraven

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I was friends with a neighbor of my sister and we smoked together for a few years.

He was an older Veteran and seemed interested in growing for himself so he didn't have to rely on anyone.

I told him I'd show him because I didn't like him asking me for weed all the time and that I only grow for myself.

Being that I grew I decided to show him how and got him all set up, even gave him some seedlings to get him going.

A few weeks into the grow he told me it wasn't for him and he trashed everything because he was paranoid.

The very next day he called me up and had the audacity to ask me if he could buy some pot.

I haven't talked to the guy since.
yeah ida been the same way, this kid i went to high school with had started coming alot and i was smoken he would smoke my shit we'd chill. well about a a month ago we go up to chill with his girl and give her a b-day celebration at UNCG.i had to pay for gas,nick and marshall both used me for gas and weed, he started bitching my out while we were in his car on the way up for smoken in his car(window down) we get there go the mall(sucked ass) found a down stem for my bong i asked him to spot me and then has the nerve to tell me i have a problem and need help. we get back to UNCG and his girl is making comments about weed, so i told her id give her some, didnt cause i could get her alone(didnt want to hear his shit) we get stalled 30 minutes outside of a small town called silver city. cars smoken...fuck it so am im more bitching. now the fucked part. he calls a week or so ago asking if he can stay(ok he wont bitch im giving him a place) he says he'll move his shit in and then we can smoke. WTF dont tell me what were gunna do. he comes over to hang before he dipsets his parents. i start token away he gives me a look wait about 10 and jets. says he would call at midnight, i knew he wouldnt so i go to bed with the phone on to make sure. never did thought he got caught. i see him a week later passenger in the car. i give him the finger and asshole in words. just yesterday the dude calls me up again! never even picked up. MORAL folks watch what age group you hang out with( im 23 nick 19 marshall 18...i failed 2 grades(if your analytical))
 

RavenMochi

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Never lost a friend over weed, but I often choose to not make non-smokers friends in the first place. Why bother?

Soon as I discover a person is either a non-head or a republican, Im pretty much not interested.

One exception is a dude I met last week at a Folk Art Festival. His paintings were so far out, LOL. One of them, I said, "Man...I wish I had some of whatever you were smoking when you painted that one."

He said, "I dont use drugs. I AM a drug."

I thought he was pretty cool.

CW

CW
I try not to, but dammit I fucked up. Now I have several straight edge friends and sometimes it does get awkward. Like I'll show them something I think is funny from a thread, and they just completely won't get it, and be like, "uh. okay....."
†L† But none of them give me shit for it. The only arguments we get into is one of them is from canada and is all supportive of police, and I'm all "fuck cops". We've gotten into a few times, and I know to keep them at arms length. I've had family try to talk down to me like I was nobody because I got high, didn't matter though because in all cases I already hated them.
 

The*Mad*Hatter

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the only person in my life that ever REALLY gave me shit for smoking was my father in law....was a all around good guy....but always gave me shit for smoking.........well he lost that battle......that was years ago.........
 

THENUMBER1022

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I lose friends all the time over weed. they're fucking mooching motherfuckers, sometimes "friends" just love your weed and glass collection.
 

Winter Woman

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I thought my oldest brother, a deacon, would have a fit. He didn't his stand is that it's none of the governments business. I was very surprised that he, also, is a privacy nut.
 
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