Would this work?

Urca

Urca

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Ok so had this very long talk with the dude ive mentioned lots of times on here today. He said he doesnt want to do anything "sexual" because he doesnt want to lead me on, but when we hang out we'll talk about it more and we'll see what happens.

Which is something I can work with, seeing as I've been wanting to take it a little slow for a while, but when I first heard it, I was very hurt.

So, my question is, can we still kiss and what not? He wants to see me tonight, and Im game, except for what he said earlier. The thing is, I cant go be around him and not want to touch him or kiss him.

I was thinking if I play it cool, down play my appearance (no makeup, no sexy clothes/low cut shirts), and not be on him or flirty, that I fufill my part of it.
but here's the kicker. I know him. If I do not touch him I know he will find reasons to touch me. and Im planning to smoke him out.

If we do kiss, how can I keep it at just kissing, so that he and I both get what we want?

I know this sounds stupid but bear with me, Im young and well, I want him more than anything.
 
cannabineer

cannabineer

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Imo it would be a fantastic way for you to reassure yourself of your own strength to just play it cool. Trust me when i say it'll be good practice for so many aspects of later life. cn
 
Urca

Urca

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cannabineer said:
Imo it would be a fantastic way for you to reassure yourself of your own strength to just play it cool. Trust me when i say it'll be good practice for so many aspects of later life. cn
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yeah im thinking im gonna play it cool, then if he still tries something without me acting how i normally do, then ill go for it. But I dont want it to escalate into full blown sexual stuff, so how do I keep it simple?
 
420God

420God

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[video=youtube;h0JvF9vpqx8]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h0JvF9vpqx8&ob=av3e[/video]
 
cannabineer

cannabineer

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Urca said:
yeah im thinking im gonna play it cool, then if he still tries something without me acting how i normally do, then ill go for it. But I dont want it to escalate into full blown sexual stuff, so how do I keep it simple?
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My opinion? Only way to keep it simple is to keep it out of the picture. Discontinue any romantic aspect with this one. That is my honest advice.
If he doesn't start something, all's well.
If he does try, then YOU be the one to say "thanks but let's not".
cn
 
Urca

Urca

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DSB65 said:
blowjob........... Isn't that yalls thing...
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um, thats what i dont want to do. I just want a nice night where we hang out, etc, and tbh, yes I want to kiss him a touch him a bit. but not go overboard like a blowjob
 
The Cryptkeeper

The Cryptkeeper

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ganjames said:
[video=youtube;2-Wgux_Z-fc]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-Wgux_Z-fc[/video]
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I think like, 2, 3 people maybe? Probably be best to just visitor message those people and not set yourself up for a bashing. Alas, she can do as she likes. :eyesmoke: Wish she wouldn't bitch when she gets, what she herself acknowledges. :?
 
ganjames

ganjames

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The Cryptkeeper said:
I think like, 2, 3 people maybe? Probably be best to just visitor message those people and not set yourself up for a bashing. Alas, she can do as she likes. :eyesmoke: Wish she wouldn't bitch when she gets, what she herself acknowledges. :?
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I think she has a party sausage under her skirt.
 
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I'm not trying to be mean, but it sounds to me like he is grooming you to be his fuck buddy. After the sex he can tell you I told you blah,blah,blah. Then how's it gonna be ? Tell him how you feel. If he bolts so be it.
 
2fast92

2fast92

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Tell him beforehand you just wanna hook up. If he tries anything then leave. I don't know what else you can do. I think that's what would be your best bet, but I'm not a girl so I don't know. I hope I helped though.
 
mysunnyboy

mysunnyboy

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thumbnailCAAL45W4.jpggrrrl wtf...why would YOU smoke the GUY out? that's odd, but then again i gather this is the kind of relationship where he gets what he wants at your expense. this is the blowjob guy right? why do you do this to yourself? i am thinking you may have some serious (or more serious) emotional issue later because of your no self-esteem.
i am with them on the "Who the hell cares" thing but dear, if you are this 18 year old confused female, and everything you speak of is true, you may wanna start calling therapists now :peace:
 
Padawanbater2

Padawanbater2

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It sounds like you're setting yourself up for a bad situation. I've been exactly where he's at. When he says he doesn't want anything serious, believe him. Guys that do want more than sex don't say they don't.
 
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