Sorry about the bad news justadude420.
Try and think about the good times and not the bad brother.
Life offers her lessons in strange ways, if you learned from it then all is not lost.
Stay Strong...
TMB-
Thx for all the kind words peeps.........I'm ok, grandma couldn't wait to see grandpa or her maker. I had sent a letter out about a week before Christmas with pictures of us and the great grand kids, I thought it didn't arrive in time but, I was told she received it before passing away....
She was angry with me because I had not wrote in a long time. I am deaf so I can't just pick up the phone like everyone else......Grandma didn't understand I depend on texting and the computer. I can't really write a letter, my handwriting is unreadable due to a combination of breaking my hand multiple times and not writing in many many years.
I did send her many letters in the early years when grandpa died, however I did not write them and had a friend write them for me.
Grandma wouldn't use computers and refused to try to text, I could always write to her is what she would always tell my family members, if any lesson was learned.....it would be, don't let life get in the way.
What do I mean? I mean I let small things get in the way, it was always I'll do it tomorrow. Don't put off what you can do today, as tomorrow might be too late. Yes life gets busy, but I choose not to make time for the things I should have..... I guess what I'm saying is, it's easy to get too busy and forget the importation things!!!
haha jk I'm sorry I'm just tryin to bring some humor this thread makes me sad 
