go for true love.
then you wont have these problems.
how do you know its true love?
the fraction of a second you meet them, your heart goes nuts and you want to be with them forever (once your brain is able to think again
)
and they are the same.
sure i can look at the bodies of other women and find them sexy, but funnily only if they remind me of the wife (and even then just up to a point, a semi stiffy that goes away if i look at their face)
went through quite a few relationships before i just said, "if it aint true love, fuck it, not worth it"
the thought of my wife fucking another man? lol i cant help but smile. about as likely as me fucking around
being around my wife, feels like home, did that way from the moment i met her
and she doesnt like staying away for long either.
lots of hugs and kisses if she goes away all day with her friends. (who bitch bit about her always wanting to go home early, even though they themselves have husbands (and perhaps thats why they want to stay out longer) (funnily im the most "liberal" of all the husbands, i dont even bother to ask where my wife is going, just "have fun honey" (most days she stays with me but she and my brothers wife are pretty tight friends (family really (on both sides, funny coincidence))
its like this, even if you fancy them alot, your dingaling or dingdong goes boomshakalaka.
nope, not love.
even if you are really attracted
nope, not true love.
if you want to marry them the moment you met them (or be with them always)
for sure and your heart hurts when they are away too long,.
its love.
it feels like a star being born in your chest.