Omg. So true. I had a date a few months back with a guy, really informal. I invited him to my gf's birthday dinner at a restaurant and there were probably about 30 of our friends. Nothing happened, no holding hands, no intimacy or anything like that. He dropped me back off at home, said goodnight. The next morning I woke up to 8 city police knocking on my front door at 8:30am. He called the cops to do a "welfare check" on me, because he blew up my phone with text messages that morning, and I didn't respond. I was sleeping. NUT BAG. I told him to take a hike and he harrassed my phone for a week straight up into the wee hours of the morning. He appeared so normal at first, threw me off guard.