Help busted or not?!?! Shit! What would you do! Read the story please!

[Vortex93]

Ok so my closet is being set up for a small tent for 4 plants. Theres wood frame in there, bags of stuff, aluminum flexible ducting, and some jiffy pots. My room is currently a mess because I am cleaning it. So i have clothes everywhere.


Last night I had a small get together of friends over, and kept everyone outside. Towards end of night we started going in and I was really baked. So im inside and next thing i see iis my friend coming down the stairs. I go to him and said "why were you upstairs?" "cause I was looking for a shirt to walk home in" "whered you get that" "your room" "ohh" (in a kinda pissed off voice) and i think i went white or something cause i thought he found it. He took a shirt that was right on top of my bed in front of him. I dont know what look on my face but i felt like i just had a stroke (cause i didnt know if he found it)


Then I think i said like "where did you find that? "in your room", then i said "but where exactly or something" he said my bed right on top"and hes like "are you ok? Did i like see something I wasn't supposed to or something cause you look like cracked out? I said no i just couldnt find that shirt before and he said o well it was just on top. and laughed and that was it. He didnt seem to have seen it but hes also a decent liar.


Know ive known this kid since elementary school (im 20 now) although weve never really been close he is best friends with one of my best friends.


Ive spent over 400 bucks on this and countless hours setting up and planning it.


What do you guy think? Should I scrap it? Should i ask him and tell only him (hes good with secrets)? Should I try to ask him without asking him? I am almost in tears to think about scrapping my hours of work and hundreds of dollars of cash for nothing not to mention the fact that its so unknown its frustrating AS HELL!


PLEASE HELP!!??!?!?! WHAT WOULD YOU DO?!


I was thinking of asking if he took any money from my closet, and saying I had money in there and I thought im missing some and one of my doors was just very slightly open (like just before being closed) and hes the only one that went up there.

 

[stumpjumper]

I think youre paranoid,,, scrap it all!!!

 

[Vortex93]

Please be serious I am going to die from the paranoia =\

 

[chrishydro]

When someone is asked a question and or put on the spot and they feel they have to lye they will laugh at the end of their statment.

Laughing lowers blood pressure and relieves stress. When someone is being deceitful they tend to build stress, particularly if they are in danger of being uncovered. They will counteract this by frequently breaking eye contact with the individual(s) they are lying to, laughing, losing their train of thought and actively revising their story to make it more believable and therefor secure.

Your busted. But with that said if you know him long time why worry. Problem is he tells a few people and one of them gets a dui or some bullshit charge and the only way to get out of it is to rat your deal out.

 

[marc88101]

I think you should clean your room. Clothes all over the floor? Not cool man!!!

 

[Vortex93]

Well he laughed at me cause i looked like I had seen a ghost probably, didnt laugh at the question, actually he was serious and kept eye contact with me. It was me who froze in spot.

That being said, as chris said, I'm not worried about if hell rat me, im worried who he'll tell, although hes a smart guy, been around pot enough, dont think he would be stupid and go tell everyone without telling me.

What do you guys think about the money in the closet idea?

 

[Guitar guy]

I wouldn't worry about it. Get yourself a lock on your door and lock it when people are over. Who's to say he knew what all that stuff was in your closet?

If you think he did see it, next time you see him be like "dude I had the worst weekend ever. I was building shelves in my closet and I was almost done and realized I had a few pieces cut too short so I had to take it all down and redo it"

 

[Vortex93]

Is one persons word enough to get me busted really? I live in a suburb in canada btw, and there is barely any cops in my area. Its a small tent grow with 3 plants so I cant see how they would get any other evidence.

 

[jpockets420]

that persons word means jack...now if he comes back asking questions and wanting to see it or take pictures then you have a problem. cops need a lot more than a word from somebody to be able to enter someones house and bust them. They need hard evidence..pictures, other witnesses....maybe set u up somehow. What I would do..if he did see it and asks about it is tell him your light fell on your plants in the middle of the night, you checked them and they were all dead, grow over, end of story. Then lock that door and let NOBODY in it...ever.

 

[lahadaextranjera]

Are these people ur friends or what ??? You either shouldn't have this concern with them or don't let them near the property !!!

 

[Vortex93]

I want to lock that door but I cant really do it without people wondering why its looked, its just a closet and it never had a lock before. A lock on the exterior says I got something to hide in there. Also id have to drill holes in the doors and I'm not allowed too. (I rent). If he asks or anything the whole things getting scrapped for sure. One mouth is too many because you really dont know who theyre going to tell and who that persons going to tell and so on, its just a multiplier Im not interested in seeing it move up.

This all being said, the only person I think he would tell is my one of closest/tightest friends (since its his only best friends). they both know about pot, and we all smoke enough to not be stupid about spreading that info (or so i hope). And I also bought him a quarter of smoke once on loan cause he was real short of cash so i payed for him and he payed me back.

Hopefully the weed Gods wouldnt let me be caught by him for such a noble act lol

 

[Vortex93]

They are all my friends and most of the people i was with I would trust with this secret, but the golden rule that was stressed when i was learning is tell no one. And like i said when one person knows, the secret could spread, I think im just paranoid.

Other problem is all my friends smoke pot and i dont need them asking me for free bud all the time, I dont mind sharing, but I dont like to be taken advantage of, and I planned on sharing it without telling it was mine

 

[chrishydro]

You got to remember he is only 20, if his buddy is the same age kids party and talk. With that said they cant just raid your place on a comment I agree they need photos or some type of hard evid to get a warrant to just show up and come inside. Get a lock on that door as mentioned above and keep the key hidden. And by all means if you get a girlfriend in the next few weeks dont tell her no matter how long you have known here. When she gets pissed you are screwed. Not too worried about that because men with dirty rooms never get chicks. The smell of dirty socks and stained underwear drive them away. lol

 

[Vortex93]

My room has clothes everywhere cause im cleaning it. I was cleaning out old clothes and sorting through it all to organize it. I would never tell my girlfriend even if we dated for years. Shit i dont know if ill even ever tell my wife in the future. Women do stupid things out of hate without realized how much they can fuck you over. I like to give people no dirt on me so I dont have to worry about this shit. Hence why im so paranoid. Maybe I just have trust issues.

 

[scroglodyte]

eliminate him..................

 

[H R Puff N Stuff]

first buy a lock for your bedroom door, clean the closet out, have another party, have a smoke session in your room with the closet door open invite that friend that borrowed the shirt so he can see the closet is empty the next day rebuild keep door locked.

 

[lokie]

They talk.

I met a man 1 time that grew fields of ganja. fast forward 8 years.

Some friends of mine on vacation came over to party. The dude's wife and 18 yr old son
had come to stay a week. All is good. One night the teen decided to be
a braggert and tell everyone in the room his father grew weed. must have been 5 or 6 complete strangers
and a few friends that learned something about the dude. All in a conversation 1000s of miles away.

I tried to steer the convo off topic and later schooled the boy on that was just something that should Never be done.

 

[Corso312]

that grow is real small....relax and continue on...stop having people over and get a lock for that door.

 

[FLOWERMASTER]

who gives a shit...its 4 plants....in my state (non medical maryjane state) thats a 150$ fine or 15 days in jail...and courts want $$$$$...ill pay ur bail dude if a nark team hits ur house for 4 plants... ... thats a personal grow...if you had 50-100 plants...you can worrie urself to death if somone seen that shit...but what did that kid see....4 plants that havent even been started yet...lol...i say keep going...that kid wont say nothing...dont give him a reason to.

 

[richinweed]

Then I think i said like "where did you find that? "in your room", then i said "but where exactly or something" he said my bed right on top"and hes like "are you ok? Did i like see something I wasn't supposed to or something cause you look like cracked out? I said no i just couldnt find that shirt before and he said o well it was just on top. and laughed and that was it. He didnt seem to have seen it but hes also a decent liar....................so why in the world would you let ppl whome u kno are decent liars in your home...better yet dont evan bring liars into your circle of friends....liars are thieves and or rats...its in thier deceptive lowlife nature.