My Dad is Giving Me Problems, Need Your Advice
- Thread starter Islam
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Long standing marriages are ballets. The quieter one, usually the woman, gets the sympathy but the truth is this is a relationship of equals. Stay out of your parents marriage. If your mother is willing to triangulate you into to doing something behind her husbands back think about 30 years from now. YOU are married and your wife is triangulating YOUR children behind your back and supporting your children's disrespectful attitude toward you.
Stay out of this, PLEASE. You can't win this and there are huge psychological issues in this you are completely unaware of. Please if you want YOUR future marriage to not be like your mom and dads get out of the middle of THEIR marriage. Instead watch the dynamic and learn and focus on growing up, getting an education and a career and moving out. That is your job not a pseudo rescue of your mother that is all just manipulative bullshit. Your mother is NOT helpless and your father is NOT a controlling bastard. This is their marriage and their dance and it works for them even though you do not understand nor see the sense of it. If your mother didn't like it she could change it in an instant. She lives in a free country. PLEASE stop and refocus your efforts on yourself you are not their equal, you do not have the insight to judge one right and the other wrong.
Fungus Gnat
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Ridiculous.
canadian tire, everythings quite cheap i just bought soil for 2 dollars
dirtsurfr
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If they cut off the hand that steals then what do you cut off a person like you? their nose for being were it should'nt?
Their tonge for speeking against their Father? Their Butt for being lazy??
If you were my son I'd cut you off and kick your ass to the curb.
If your going to live off your father and under his roof abide by his wishes.
Their tonge for speeking against their Father? Their Butt for being lazy??
If you were my son I'd cut you off and kick your ass to the curb.
If your going to live off your father and under his roof abide by his wishes.
mysunnyboy
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just chopped this and you can see the nutes i use 
Islam
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dirtyho1968
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7-UP works better then Pepsi in the latter weeks of flowering.just chopped this and you can see the nutes i use
dirtyho1968
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My bad 7-UP is the uncola. I meant Dr. Pepper.
Islam
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I guess you're entitled to your view on things. I kind of do agree with you... Dad does buy groceries, pay for utilities and such, but he has always had his intimidating attitude.
My dad's side of the family (brother, sister, nephews, cousins) have kept bothering my mom on so many things. They're fucking cheap as hell, rude, gossipy, like fucking raccoons. I can't explain it so well on here, but she's went through a lot because of these people and some of the fucking sad excuse for doctors here. I'm relying on good old marijuana to help her with her conditions because she's almost a vegetable.
malignant
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the funny thing is if you were in india or pakastan the doctors would already be prescribing your mother consumable cannabis, either in tinctures or bhang. i posted a few bhang recipes on here if you can get your hands on a little you might be able to fix her up something tasty and relieving. seriously arent there any brothers in ontario that can bring this guy a few 2nd run pots let him recycle your soil? kick down a half bag of jamaican guano so all he has to look for is molasses and a fish tank pump? if you were here in the southwestern desert id bring you a goodie bag to get you through your first run. if you dont find what you need by the end of the month pm me ill try to get a couple shops in the area to give you samples.
PixiDustr
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cannabineer
Ursus marijanus
Unable to +rep this, but it deserves it. cn
dababydroman
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why dont you try telling your dad how you feel about all this, and if it doesnt work. sucker punch his ass try to knock him out.
DuplicatePie
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No, I'm sorry, but this is incorrect. From this post it kind of sounds like you think there are no such things as abusive relationships. Some women stay with controlling men for the sake of their kids, because they are scared of what the controlling husband will do if she leaves, because she has no where else to go, etc.... If 30 years from now Islam is being a POS to his wife, watching her suffer, and being unwilling to do anything truly effective (especially after the things he already thought would be effective failed. i.e. surgery) then I truly hope that his kids do conspire with the woman he is supposed to love to make her life easier. This is not about not having respect for his dad, it's about having respect for his mom and wanting to help her out. And it is his job to pseudo rescue his mom if he can, his dad sure isn't doing the job. I'm not sure why many people on this thread think they know who this guys dad is and how he couldn't possibly be controlling, how could you possibly know. Just because you thought your dad might be a little controlling when you were a kid, but realized when you grew up that he was just being a good dad doesn't mean that's the case for all people. Controlling and abusive relationships exist, despite the fact that we live in a free country.
cannabineer
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As an 18+, the OP has the option of leaving home. cn
CR500ROOST
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Dyna grow is cheaper and better plus less bottles.
Oscar Zeta Acosta
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Why don't you get a job? You could pretty much solve every issue going with the money generated, and maybe your dad will begin respecting you and what you say from seeing the effort you are putting in.