Dating a girl of the same ancestral heritage

high|hgih

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I was thinking today, Im dating this girl whos heritage is german mostly along with irish and scottish. Which is mine too. And we are getting along great! But the thing is I guess it always starts out fun hehe

Its odd though our interests are very similar.

Ya think that its a good idea to filter girls out by their heritage? lol like its odd how all of that works.

When I think about things like genetics though, we all spread apart as time goes on, through family trees. If one was in your heritage that would mean that regionally they are closer to you gene wise right?

The other thing to think about is mating, when one mates with their sister, their baby is gonna have abnormalities and such, Ive never read about that specifically, but Im interested to hear what you all have to say about this. But, if one was a little closer to their mate in the genetic tree, would the abnormalities be a good or a bad thing? After all we have to evolve slowly anyways as a race of animal.
 

PUFeNUF

Active Member
i'm mixed including but not limited to mexican, filipino, caucasian, and african descent. that is hard to come by if i were looking.
 

Scrotie Mcboogerballs

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that's weird, cause i thought we were psychologically wired to date people who are most like our family? . . . but I guess i am from texas. f u c . . .
 

Tenner

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If both your ancestral heritage, and your interests are similar then you might be onto something dude!

Its the common points that make it right? You`ve officially doubled up on that here, enjoy your new girlie! :)
 

high|hgih

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Some people have a thing for incest lol

And I mean... The least like family would be some african heritage.. And we're all humans anyways. Mutations are how evolution occurs so maybe its more intelligent to mate with someone closer to you? Still it would be a hit or miss scenario.
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
I was talking about smell only. You can be attracted to someone who looks like your sister but smells like nobody your brainstem knows. Schwing! unless your sister was fuk-ugly ... cn
 

Total Head

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To me, as an american, irish, german, and scottish = white. There really isn't a whole lot of difference between these nationalities culturally (in the states) in "mutt people". Unless someone is specifically "raised german" or "raised italian" etc. there isn't much to feel a kinship over. It's just another pale face in a sea of white.

Then again, i'm comprised of 5 nationalities and it's unlikely i'll ever encounter someone with my same makeup so i guess i can't really say. But i do know that all the successful relationships i know of are between unlike nationalities. There's a reason most of us are mixed to begin with, regardless of how hard we try to remain separate.
 

Ringsixty

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Why does it matter...It doesn't.
Only thing that matters is if your compatible.

Bring back Free Love. Need to test out my theorybongsmilie
 

chrishydro

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If you have the same herritage it is very much likely that you have the same types of upbringing. The way your parents talked to each other the way they acted etc etc, chances are you pretty much have lead the same type of lives all along. With that said the way you were raised is the way you think it should be, it is your safe zone so to say. That is why you are atracted to her and she to you. Now I cant tell you how fucked up that makes both of you but it is a very hard cycle to break.

Oh one other thing, it is never a good idea to mate with your sister. Just saying you might want to leave her alone.
 

Gastanker

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Personally I would say socioeconomic levels and education go slightly more hand in hand with successful relationships than heritage - at least in the more progressive states. Like others have stated, color/heritage has little to do with how similar people and their ideas/ideals are.

I'm Irish, German, Dutch, Scotch, and French. My family has been in California for eight generations now... I'm just a white American. I'm far more Californian than Irish, Scotch, German, French...
 

Kaendar

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To me, as an american, irish, german, and scottish = white. There really isn't a whole lot of difference between these nationalities culturally (in the states) in "mutt people". Unless someone is specifically "raised german" or "raised italian" etc. there isn't much to feel a kinship over. It's just another pale face in a sea of white.

Then again, i'm comprised of 5 nationalities and it's unlikely i'll ever encounter someone with my same makeup so i guess i can't really say. But i do know that all the successful relationships i know of are between unlike nationalities. There's a reason most of us are mixed to begin with, regardless of how hard we try to remain separate.
"American" is not an ethnicity, unless you mean native american.
 

Gastanker

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"American" is not an ethnicity, unless you mean native american.
Ethnicity: The fact or state of belonging to a social group that has a common national or cultural tradition.

It can be considered an ethnicity - at least as much as you can consider Native Americans as a group.
 

Shannon Alexander

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I was thinking today, Im dating this girl whos heritage is german mostly along with irish and scottish. Which is mine too. And we are getting along great! But the thing is I guess it always starts out fun hehe

Its odd though our interests are very similar.

Ya think that its a good idea to filter girls out by their heritage? lol like its odd how all of that works.

When I think about things like genetics though, we all spread apart as time goes on, through family trees. If one was in your heritage that would mean that regionally they are closer to you gene wise right?

The other thing to think about is mating, when one mates with their sister, their baby is gonna have abnormalities and such, Ive never read about that specifically, but Im interested to hear what you all have to say about this. But, if one was a little closer to their mate in the genetic tree, would the abnormalities be a good or a bad thing? After all we have to evolve slowly anyways as a race of animal.
As far as incest goes you're less likely to see the negative mutations when the father breeds with his daughters as apposed to the Mother breeding with her sons... as far as brother/sister/cousin relations go I can't remember... seeing as you'd have to be at a guess at least 3 generations removed (or else you'd pretty much already know if she was in your family tree) with a minimum of 3 different nationalities I'm fairly certain you're pretty safe...
 

Sir.Ganga

New Member
Give it a hundred years and they will be saying ...remember when people were of different races? Wow wouldn't that be different?

Think about it.....there you go.
 

Kaendar

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Ethnicity: The fact or state of belonging to a social group that has a common national or cultural tradition.

It can be considered an ethnicity - at least as much as you can consider Native Americans as a group.
Race? Your arguing technicalities. He listed American like it was the same as irish, german, etc. The only group of ppl indigenous to America are native americans.
 

GreatwhiteNorth

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Race? Your arguing technicalities. He listed American like it was the same as irish, german, etc. The only group of ppl indigenous to America are native americans.
Didn't native Americans migrate to this continent?
Means they aren't "Native" either.
 
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