when do you tell someone you don't want a relationship with commitment?

[FootballFirst]

i'm a guy so i'm looking to hit up the ladies. at this point in my life, i'm not looking for comittment, just fun. at what point do you tell the other person that you just want to have fun without a serious relationship?

 

[420God]

After you do it.

 

[RC7]

Actions speak louder than words... If you are true to yourself your actions will always show your intentions

 

[zerothefunk]

AFTER getting stoned of course..people make that such a big deal..I think we're the only species that stays monogomous (well..supposed to be anyway)..well i think whales might too..but damn...

 

[FootballFirst]

After you do it.

this is exactly what i was trying to get at.

 

[Dislexicmidget2021]

Ya u gotts to hit it first,then explain it a tactful way that were friends with benefits,or basically fuckbuddies,,sometimes it works and other times well,not so much.

 

[guy incognito]

When they call from the alter asking where the fuck you are.

 

[chrishydro]

After you do it.

Yes for sure, get with her several times until she is doing everything that gets you off than tell her. You must keep to man code, no serious stuff like talk until after lots of sex. That way they are either down with it or hate you and if they hate you dont have to worry about them coming around any more unless they wana do it.

 

[zerothefunk]

guy..you're ruthless! lol

 

[hellraizer30]

You dont! Just never bring them back to your place, always have them host! And never stay the night!
If you follow this they will get the point.

 

[Dirtfree]

from the very begining....just be straight up.

 

[chrishydro]

guy..you're ruthless! lol

No man you say nothing, do it a bunch of times, than she opens the door "Hey are we like and item now, she asks" You act totaly suprised and your are like OMG did I lead you to beleive that, I never said that I am so soory. She either gets pissed and leaves or she hangs around to convince you but helping you out cleaning your place and car and giving you toatal great sex. Simple shit,

 

[FootballFirst]

do you kiss these bitches?

 

[ru4r34l]

Tell them upfront man, the chick is probably thinking the same thing or worse about a relationship with you!

In all seriousness there are tons of ladies that are in the same boat as you, you just need to find them! and I suspect if your banging them your probably kissing them; somewhere, at some point.

regards,

 

[hellraizer30]

Tell them upfront man, the chick is probably thinking the same thing or worse about a relationship with you!

In all seriousness there are tons of ladies that are in the same boat as you, you just need to find them! and I suspect if your banging them your probably kissing them; somewhere, at some point.

regards,

Hahaha very true

 

[zerothefunk]

My girl just finished reading these threads..she hates all of you!! lOOLOLOLOL!!!
except for Dirtfreee..awww...how sweet she said...LOL

 

[Morgan Lynn]

Relationship = commitment

Best stick with the one night stands.

 

[missnu]

Depends on what kind of fun you want....
If you want to sleep with a woman once, then don't tell her what you are looking for at all cuz who cares you just met this woman and she is willing to sleep with you...

but if you want to sleep with a woman repeatedly over a period of time with no strings attached, then make sure it is a woman that has her own life and stuff going on, but needs something to rub against... so right up front...

and just know that sex is a natural tangler...it tends to create strings that perhaps shouldn't be there, but naturally are...one night stands are just that...
But any 2 night stands are a form of relationship...

 

[missnu]

You have to pick the right woman...it isn't what you say...

People that are looking for a relationship will still look for one even if you tell them you don't want anything serious...but a woman not looking for a relationship is less likely to cling to you like some weirdo mutant needy bat...

So a person not looking for a relationship, having a sexual relationship with someone looking for a relationship, is technically in a relationship...
Found that out the hard way...lol.
I was looking for something fun and distracting...ended up with a husband...some guys don't want fun though...

So there are women that enjoy more fun and less drudgery as well...they just aren't supposed to talk about it...lol.

 

[Dirtfree]

My girl just finished reading these threads..she hates all of you!! lOOLOLOLOL!!!
except for Dirtfreee..awww...how sweet she said...LOL

Thats whats up!