raised christian, have some faith, but feel so fake in church...

tyler.durden

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Here is one of the was I have seen it.. and have looked from many angles in the past 40 years.
as much as I cant discredit those with their views..


I certainly cant and will never discredit OUR ancestors.. who have not only built MASSIVE structures that are still around and still being found today... but they have a History.. a past and believe based on what they knew..

So that is all made up??

The "Flood Myth" The Massive cataclysmic events that they have been written about.. the "first man" the "creationism myth" all of these things.. are not just bound by one area.. these are WORLD WIDE "myths"
this was all WAY before twitter!

and we are suppose to think this was a story? We are just a small speck of dust in the realm of things.. we EACH have a purpose a drive and desire that pushes us along..


I cant buy into the idea that all of our past ancestors were just crazy..

Perhaps they saw something that we as a Society have not seen in several thousand years.. and are not meant to see till the timing is due.

We think today just beacuse we cant see it happen or have no accurate records or video of it.. it was all a story or myth.
Yes, it was all made up. Our ancestors were not crazy, consider that the ones you mentioned had not yet discovered the scientific method for acquiring data, so they were simply trying to explain natural phenomena in their own primitive way (this is not taking into account purposeful deception when a group of intelligent, power-hungry individuals made up stories to fit their own agenda). We no longer need to do this, as we have the methodology and logic to deduce what is actually happening. You may want to educate yourself on logical fallacies and the basics of the areas of science I previously mentioned, I'm confident this will widen your perception and awareness of the world around you. You can find a lot of this knowledge in past threads in this very forum, there's some very learned fuckers here...
 

Chief Walkin Eagle

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Here is one of the was I have seen it.. and have looked from many angles in the past 40 years.
as much as I cant discredit those with their views..


I certainly cant and will never discredit OUR ancestors.. who have not only built MASSIVE structures that are still around and still being found today... but they have a History.. a past and believe based on what they knew..

So that is all made up??

The "Flood Myth" The Massive cataclysmic events that they have been written about.. the "first man" the "creationism myth" all of these things.. are not just bound by one area.. these are WORLD WIDE "myths"
this was all WAY before twitter!

and we are suppose to think this was a story? We are just a small speck of dust in the realm of things.. we EACH have a purpose a drive and desire that pushes us along..


I cant buy into the idea that all of our past ancestors were just crazy..

Perhaps they saw something that we as a Society have not seen in several thousand years.. and are not meant to see till the timing is due.

We think today just beacuse we cant see it happen or have no accurate records or video of it.. it was all a story or myth.
I like this way of thinking. Though I do not believe in a lot of what Christianity has to say, there is slivers of truth in all religions. Some of these age old stories had to of come to be because of real events. "If" god exists, to think no religion has knowledge of god is pure ignorance, those who tell you otherwise fall under the same delusion of certainty that they accuse you of. Out of the millions of unexplainable "paranormal" experiences, stories, events... Not one of them is really what it appears to be because science has a materialistic belief to hold on to? Science has its limitations and we are finding them today. Science doesnt know how DNA can have a unexplainable telepathic quality. Science doesnt know how an observer changes the behavior of sub atomic particles, which also kinda hints and telepathy. To each his own I guess. Who am I to stop people from believing in materialism.
 

Heisenberg

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If you cannot accept the fact that what you believe has the possability of being wrong... then you are beyond anyone's help.

You could be wrong, just as everyone could potentially be wrong about what they believe. If you cannot accept that, denial and delusion already have you in their death grip.


Remeber the fact that beliefs are ideas that we think or want to be true, if they were true... they wouldn't be called beleifs, they would be provable facts. And even facts, could still be illusion, this existence could be illusion, or a dream, or simulation.

I like to point out the awesome fact that beliefs are merely ideas we claim truth to, without evidence to support those claims. If we had evidence to support them, they wouldn't be beliefs now would they?
I'd like to take this rare opportunity to disagree with you. I like your concept, but I'm not sure about the vocabulary. Don't you mean to say that faith is belief without support, if we had support we wouldn't need faith? Perhaps I am misunderstanding the context.

Here is my take... When ideas govern our choices and actions, they become beliefs.

A proposition is a statement or assertion that expresses judgment. Belief is trust that a proposition says something accurate about the world. Evidence, or strong reasoning, is actually the biggest factor in believing something. Beliefs then become principals of action. If I believe it's bad when a black cat crosses my path, I change my path. Even this superstitious belief is based on evidence. At some point someone decided it was bad luck, probably because of witches, and confirmation bias did the rest. We both know the evidence comes from bad logic, but it's still support. All beliefs follow this mechanism. By changing my path to avoid the cat I am admitting that my beliefs are a consequence of the world, therefore I must be open to new evidence. If I am shown a convincing source that says 99.9% of black cat crossings end fine, I must now change my belief to reflect this conviction, or else abandon the entire premise of belief that I began with. If no change in the world can effect my belief, then my belief is not based on taking the world into account. I can not point to my trust in a belief as reason to ignore the world and still claim my trust is based on regarding the world. Anytime we suggest we believe something without support, like religious belief, we are abandoning our premise and indirectly admitting that our beliefs do not represent reality. If we are attached to our beliefs and are shown contrary evidence or reasoning, cognitive dissonance allows us to rationalize. We can invent faith and pretend it's a virtue. We can pretend evidence and support are not important concepts, and not notice how, meanwhile, we desperately look for and collect support for the belief. Beliefs are not opposite facts, beliefs are trust in purported facts. The only difference in beliefs with support and beliefs without is the way in which we justify them. I believe I ate tomato soup tonight and I justify that with my memory and the empty soup can. I believe in God and I justify that with tricks and the invention of faith. Both ideas are still principals of action and govern my choices.


“‎Faith, if it is ever right about anything, is right by accident”
― Sam Harris
 

Zaehet Strife

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I'd like to take this rare opportunity to disagree with you. I like your concept, but I'm not sure about the vocabulary. Don't you mean to say that faith is belief without support, if we had support we wouldn't need faith? Perhaps I am misunderstanding the context.

Here is my take... When ideas govern our choices and actions, they become beliefs.

A proposition is a statement or assertion that expresses judgment. Belief is trust that a proposition says something accurate about the world. Evidence, or strong reasoning, is actually the biggest factor in believing something. Beliefs then become principals of action. If I believe it's bad when a black cat crosses my path, I change my path. Even this superstitious belief is based on evidence. At some point someone decided it was bad luck, probably because of witches, and confirmation bias did the rest. We both know the evidence comes from bad logic, but it's still support. All beliefs follow this mechanism. By changing my path to avoid the cat I am admitting that my beliefs are a consequence of the world, therefore I must be open to new evidence. If I am shown a convincing source that says 99.9% of black cat crossings end fine, I must now change my belief to reflect this conviction, or else abandon the entire premise of belief that I began with. If no change in the world can effect my belief, then my belief is not based on taking the world into account. I can not point to my trust in a belief as reason to ignore the world and still claim my trust is based on regarding the world. Anytime we suggest we believe something without support, like religious belief, we are abandoning our premise and indirectly admitting that our beliefs do not represent reality. If we are attached to our beliefs and are shown contrary evidence or reasoning, cognitive dissonance allows us to rationalize. We can invent faith and pretend it's a virtue. We can pretend evidence and support are not important concepts, and not notice how, meanwhile, we desperately look for and collect support for the belief. Beliefs are not opposite facts, beliefs are trust in purported facts. The only difference in beliefs with support and beliefs without is the way in which we justify them. I believe I ate tomato soup tonight and I justify that with my memory and the empty soup can. I believe in God and I justify that with tricks and the invention of faith. Both ideas are still principals of action and govern my choices.


“‎Faith, if it is ever right about anything, is right by accident”
― Sam Harris
Taking into consideration, that if we are to differentiate between what is real and not real, we need the scientific method. If we are to presume that what is real can be associated with the scientific method, and what is not real can't, would that not mean that we are not required to believe anything that is fact, we are only reqired to believe something that has no evidence?
 

Heisenberg

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Taking into consideration, that if we are to differentiate between what is real and not real, we need the scientific method.

If we are to presume that what is real can be associated with the scientific method, and what is not real can't, would that not mean that we are not required to believe anything that is fact, we are only reqired to believe something that has no evidence?

This assumes the person is aware of science. The mechanism of belief has been around before logic and reasoning, and even then it was still based on support, the inclination that what is believed says something accurate about reality. Even animals observe this mechanism. When you rattle the food bowl they believe you are going to put food down, and this belief affects their actions. How does the animal decide if the idea that you will put food down is real or not real? Why doesn't he get excited when you shake the cereal box? He doesn't use logic and investigation, he uses intuition honed by experience. The first time you shake the cereal box, he thinks it's food and reacts accordingly. After a few times, he knows better. No scientific method involved, yet a belief still governs action.

Beliefs are not based on what is real, they are based on what is convincing. What is convincing is based on values, emotion, experience, and intuition. The act of believing is the act of differentiating what is real and not real to us. The scientific method simply offers a tool to test and refine beliefs for those who value it.
 

Hepheastus420

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Hey, Hep! When you reply with quote, you'll notice Quote in brackets meaning begin quote, and /Quote in brackets meaning end quote.
OK, so like this?

Simply make sure the portion of a post is surround by these two operators, and voila! You have your separate quotes ;)
Lets see if I did it right..

EDIT: And all it required was some common sense ;). Thanks bud, here's some rep for helping out :).
 

Hepheastus420

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Awwww shiiit! Now that I know how to do that, I can begin to disect other posters' posts and make my response more organized.
 

Heisenberg

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Isn't it funny how liberals want to remove a cross at the 911 site that was so inspirational to so many?



In a time they really needed it? They say that atheists need to be represented. I wonder how many atheists worked 7 days straight with very few hopes.. Other than a cross that stood upward. WHY ARE LIBERALS SO CRAZY!!!??

http://news.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474981555384
If you think an atheist can't spend time selflessly helping others, then you need better exposure to the world and need to pay more attention.

I do however agree that atheists who want the cross removed are ridiculous. It's not a cross, it's a piece of rubble that provided many people with inspiration. Preserving the cross is respecting that inspiration, even if that inspiration is a result of pareidolia and a faulty belief system. How can someone get mad over the way someone else's brain interprets an object? What if the rubble resembled a bust of Uncle Sam? Uncle Sam isn't real, so should we refuse to preserve the rubble? Atheists who are bothered by the preservation of this cross must be insecure in their convictions or else ideological fascists.
 

missnu

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I havent been to church in a while...but i spoke to a friend about this. I felt i was the only one until.

My presence is the only real part ive consistantly brought to a church and even that i seem to alter to the best of my ability to blend in the most i can. Impressing people, especially ones with importance within the church, with "newfound discoveries of improvement" within myself have become my goal. I raise my hands and sing to the music to appear to have a more intense relationship with god. I pay attention to sermons on the outside, while inside thoughts of anything else take place. I have put more effort in impressing the church and its body then i have trying to impress my mother. Im sick of being what you want. My feelings have driven me to rebel, I would rather easily lie and be praised by everyone than to actually share my own sick and twisted feelings and be "that guy". I have been in and out of several churches and although i have met some awesome people with many churches in the right direction, i feel the church is not a positive place for me. Especially having a chameleon like personality to be able to blend in to many different environments. Church is too easy and good to be "played" I dont want that game in my cupboard anymore, i feel guilty under God. I truly long and desire the needs and wants of god, even though my faith has been wilting slowly for years. chime in haters, fakers, lovers, christians, jews, REAL church goers, etc.

Anyone else feel like this? similar? contrary? lets hear about it
Well if you have to fake feeling churchy then isn't that the meaning of church? the thing to remember is that everyone around you is faking themselves just as hard or harder than you are...
Just ask the people speaking in tongues...Lol.
So don't feel bad...I think feeling like you aren't as pious as the other church goers is the foundation of organized religion...and we all know that the wise man built his house upon the rock...or the crock, whatever.
 

missnu

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I think people should be able to put up all the crosses they want, but the world won't run right til fewer people need to look at the cross for their direction.
 

cannabineer

Ursus marijanus
Isn't it funny how liberals want to remove a cross at the 911 site that was so inspirational to so many?



In a time they really needed it? They say that atheists need to be represented. I wonder how many atheists worked 7 days straight with very few hopes.. Other than a cross that stood upward. WHY ARE LIBERALS SO CRAZY!!!??

http://news.gather.com/viewArticle.action?articleId=281474981555384
Would you feel the same way about a star, a crescent, a mandala, an eagle's feather? cn
 

Zaehet Strife

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This assumes the person is aware of science. The mechanism of belief has been around before logic and reasoning, and even then it was still based on support, the inclination that what is believed says something accurate about reality. Even animals observe this mechanism. When you rattle the food bowl they believe you are going to put food down, and this belief affects their actions. How does the animal decide if the idea that you will put food down is real or not real? Why doesn't he get excited when you shake the cereal box? He doesn't use logic and investigation, he uses intuition honed by experience. The first time you shake the cereal box, he thinks it's food and reacts accordingly. After a few times, he knows better. No scientific method involved, yet a belief still governs action.

Beliefs are not based on what is real, they are based on what is convincing. What is convincing is based on values, emotion, experience, and intuition. The act of believing is the act of differentiating what is real and not real to us. The scientific method simply offers a tool to test and refine beliefs for those who value it.
I still don't understand how that makes this statement untrue;

"I like to point out the awesome fact that beliefs are merely ideas we claim truth to, without evidence to support those claims. If we had evidence to support them, they wouldn't be beliefs now would they?"

I've used this analagy before. Take gravity, something we know is real (if we conclude that was is real and exists in this reality, is something that can be tested, studied, and repeated). This is something that i am not required to mentally think is real/true for it to actually be real/true. My beliefs are inconsequential, they mean nothing, because regardless of what i think is true/real, untrue/false... it doesn't matter, it exists regardless.

So if you think that god exists (believe), since there is no proof or evidence to support or debunk this claim, we have no way of knowing whether or not god does, or doesn't exist. In order to percieve god existing, or not existing, we are required to form a belief about it... which is nothing more than idea, we claim truth to, without evidence to support that claim.

If we had evidence to support that claim, we wouldn't be required to beleive it, our beliefs would hold no relevence because regardless of our beliefs, it would be true, like gravity.
 

Heisenberg

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I still don't understand how that makes this statement untrue;

"I like to point out the awesome fact that beliefs are merely ideas we claim truth to, without evidence to support those claims. If we had evidence to support them, they wouldn't be beliefs now would they?"

I've used this analagy before. Take gravity, something we know is real (if we conclude that was is real and exists in this reality, is something that can be tested, studied, and repeated). This is something that i am not required to mentally think is real/true for it to actually be real/true. My beliefs are inconsequential, they mean nothing, because regardless of what i think is true/real, untrue/false... it doesn't matter, it exists regardless.
Then what do I mean when I say I believe in gravity? It's not the same as saying gravity is true because things fall, it's saying, I accept that this information is accurate and will act accordingly. Think about the things we call beliefs, and you'll find they ALL have personally convincing evidence, it's just that sometimes the evidence is an artifact of the way we gather and process information, or has been manipulated by intelectualism.

I agree that if you jump off a cliff you will fall no matter if you believe in gravity or not. But beliefs are not simply truths, beliefs are how we decide which truths to pay attention to. We have one word for the act of belief, yet it is not a unitary experience. By even evoking the concept of belief we implicitly agree that some observations are accurate and some are not. That the completed puzzle exists out there independent of us. The observations which we think are pieces that fit the puzzle are called beliefs. Whether they truly fit or not is irrelevant to the experience of believing they do. Beliefs are based on what is convincing, not what is accurate. Some people believe mystery spots defy gravity because they observe first hand a ball rolling up hill. This belief is inaccurate yet, is it any less of a belief to the person? Truths are universal, beliefs are personal. The same belief system governs subjective things. I believe orange sherbet tastes good and I have solid evidence to back it up, yet that doesn't make it universally true. Beliefs are how each person puts together their personal puzzle. Science offers a way to collectively work on that puzzle, but that development does not change the nature of belief. Beliefs are how we represent the puzzle pieces we have put together for ourselves.

If we remove action, we have no need for beliefs. If we can not do anything about the information we receive, then what value is it to us? A plant doesn't need to know what is true, it doesn't need to construct a puzzle picture, because it can't do anything about it. Evolving a belief system would be a waste of energy. When we are capable of action, then what is true about the world matters. We must base our actions off the information we gather. The actions we choose are based on which information we think is accurate. All beliefs have one thing in common, they are principals of action.

Beliefs also govern our emotions. If I say your mother has been kidnapped by Mormons, and you believe it, you get upset. If you know your mother has died years ago, a puzzle piece which makes you doubt the piece I have communicated to you, you don't believe it and don't get emotional. There is no emotion you have which can not be invoked by a belief. So beliefs decide not only our behavior, but how we feel about the world. The differentiating factor is our perception of the accuracy of the information.

So if you think that god exists (believe), since there is no proof or evidence to support or debunk this claim, we have no way of knowing whether or not god does, or doesn't exist. In order to percieve god existing, or not existing, we are required to form a belief about it... which is nothing more than idea, we claim truth to, without evidence to support that claim.

If we had evidence to support that claim, we wouldn't be required to beleive it, our beliefs would hold no relevence because regardless of our beliefs, it would be true, like gravity.
Beliefs are relevant only to the person holding them, not to the world. Beliefs are a result of gathering and processing information. If we never gather the information for gravity then it is still a truth, but it is not a belief. So, I think you have it backwards. If we have evidence to support a claim, we are required to believe it, or else risk performing an action that could be dangerous, or feeling emotions which are unjustified. If we have no evidence or reasoning, or even if we have counter evidence, we are still free to be convinced of a belief, but we are no longer free to say it arose from the same system that decides all our other beliefs. If you tell a person free energy is impossible because of thermodynamics, that person can only hold on to his belief in free energy is he discounts your evidence. It's fake, it's a conspiracy, ect. That's because information which we deem accurate decides our beliefs. A person can not think thermodynamics are true and still decide to believe in free energy. Beliefs are a slave to information, therefore, the stronger the information, the more required we are to believe, not the other way around.
 

spandy

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You dont have to go to church to believe in God. I've found that too many at church are pretenders and are only there for whatever they feel they are gaining from it in this life, rather than to be there to truly worship the Lord. They pass the pot around for all to see who puts money in and who doesn't, it's fucked up and I'm sure the way that makes those feel who can't contribute financially is just terrible. Then some churches sit your ass down in the bishops office and they go over your w-2s together, just to make sure you aren't short changing God. Or the repetitiveness of "our church is the one true church", really, if it was why do you have to assure MEMBERS of this so often. "The Church" is the living Body of Christ comprised of the redeemed in Christ, not some buidling that uses man made controls to suck your pocket dry while making you a mindless, non-questioning sucker.

Its between you and God, what others think is completely irrelevant. I am at "church" everyday, feel closer to God than I have ever in my life, yet I haven't entered a building of worship in over a decade.
 

Zaehet Strife

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Hies, i appologize, i should have clarified. I meant theological/metaphysical/spiritual/supernatural beliefs.

Beliefs we form that cannot be tested by any form of sense perception. These types of beliefs are merely ideas we claim truth to, without any evidence to support those claims (Other than personal, individual experiences, which is not evidence). If we had evidence to support them, they wouldn't be beliefs now would they?

Like i have explained before. I know that everything we think we know, or experience, has the possability of being illusion, or not even existing at all... but if we are to differentiate between what is real, and what is not real, we have to base this information on evidence. Would you not agree?

Therefore, if what we think we know is real (those things that we find based on evidence; gravity, atoms, subatomic particles etc. etc.) We are not required to believe in them, because they are real regardless of what we think, or how we percieve reality.

The only things we would be required to hold a belief about (in terms of theology, metaphysics, spiritual, supernatural) are things that we do not have any tangable evidence for.
 
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