The Friend Zone.

[RightyMcquick]

fear. insecurity. hope. failure. judgement. regret. all these things surround me, as i try to make it through.
my feelings are as they seem; true, but then why are they causing me to wish that i didn't have any at all?
i am scarred that what i feel is wrong.
trying to deal with the insecurity of liking a friend more than just a friend can be a very slippery slope.
all i can do is hope. some people say that their partner is also their best friend. why can't my best friend be my partner...
partner?
i don't want to say a word for fear that i will lose it all, but if i don't how long will
this sense of hopelessness last? if i do grow a pair and say something, is that fair? what kind of judgement
will be passed... will everything end up in the past? when i think about myself and the way i feel,
i cant help but think about why im down, and how you bring me up. i want more, maybe for selfish reasons, but
if nobody were selfish nobody would get ahead. i'm alone in this body and always will be,
i just don't want to be alone in this life, and never should be. why is it wrong? is it wrong? in my head my thoughts
are fighting each other leaving me looking for a break. i just want you to feel the same, but hoping that someone
will feel a certain way is futile and juvenile. i need to get over it, but how???

 

[Balzac89]

Number one saying something is a fail. If you like this person show then affection and flirt with them. If she is not receptive you have your answer.

Outright saying it is always bad and never works.

One more thing the fear of losing a friendship sucks, but all friendships end eventuallly.

I was after a girl in HS and she could have been mine, but I never stepped up. I have always regretted it. She's married now and has told me she always wanted to be with me but I never jumped and she has a new life.

 

[Canna Sylvan]

Dude! Why you such a pussy? After my second girlfriend considered me like a brother, I said fuck this. After the third date, if your hand isn't under that bra and your fingers don't smell funky from her love juices, you move on.Fuck friends!

 

[scroglodyte]

lexapro...............20mg q/day. get back to me in 3 weeks.

 

[rowlman]

Fuck it, fuck everything and everyone all you can.

 

[lokie]

fear. insecurity. hope. failure. judgement. regret. all these things surround me, as i try to make it through.
my feelings are as they seem; true, but then why are they causing me to wish that i didn't have any at all?
i am scarred that what i feel is wrong.
trying to deal with the insecurity of liking a friend more than just a friend can be a very slippery slope.
all i can do is hope. some people say that their partner is also their best friend. why can't my best friend be my partner...
partner?
i don't want to say a word for fear that i will lose it all, but if i don't how long will
this sense of hopelessness last? if i do grow a pair and say something, is that fair? what kind of judgement
will be passed... will everything end up in the past? when i think about myself and the way i feel,
i cant help but think about why im down, and how you bring me up. i want more, maybe for selfish reasons, but
if nobody were selfish nobody would get ahead. i'm alone in this body and always will be,
i just don't want to be alone in this life, and never should be. why is it wrong? is it wrong? in my head my thoughts
are fighting each other leaving me looking for a break. i just want you to feel the same, but hoping that someone
will feel a certain way is futile and juvenile. i need to get over it, but how???

found my mate 25 years ago she could have had me thrown under the bus and then have the driver back up just for spite., she never has.

no details, just that there is no infidelities involved, so if your waiting to fap you need to go to styleproject,.com.

the vervy foundation of trust caved in. I know it is lots of work, heavens knows shee's put up with me this long I'm ready to go all in except 2 points of oposing opinion. . not to be didcisused online.

 

[Balzac89]

found my mate 25 years ago she could have thrown me under the bus and then have the driver back up just for spite.,

no details, just that there is no otherpersones involved, so if your waiting to fap you nr to go to styleproject,.com.the earth we walk on has mutated to nquipksand, rocking a coren ofb 25 yrerws.

lol wut???

 

[rowlman]

lol wut???

....thats what I'm wondering too

 

[lokie]

Dude! Why you such a pussy? After my second girlfriend considered me like a brother, I said fuck this. After the third date, if your hand isn't under that bra and your fingers don't smell funky from her love juices, you move on.Fuck friends!

The fiove finger girl?
1) find em
2) feei em
3)foinger em
4 Fuckem
AND
5 forget em.

this dude is not looking for mrs right,
just ms right now.

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

Most people here know this already.

Even though you've shat all over my feelings I'm going to open up and empathise with you.

How you feel is how I felt all my life. Always being the one to make up for the girlfriend's shortcomings, meet the family, move in, even have the girlfriend as me to buy lingerie for the man I wanted on her birthday, patch their relationship up etc. Watch him all over someone else and expect me to be ok with it. same with every guy I ever liked. One even told me he did live me, but he wouldn't date me because I was actually good for him.So, make me feel guilty over your unhappiness but don't let me fix it.

I know what this heartbreak feels like. I cried myself to sleep every night for years over it. I still can't hear his voice without falling apart. I miss him but when I see him and come away again I feel like I'm dying inside.

But along comes a man who truly loves me for me. If it's real love, the bond will always be there but it will be 'different' and less painful WHEN, not if the right one comes along.

I thought no one would ever love me, and I am precious to someone now, which makes me want to love myself more as well as him.

It'll happen for you eventually hun x

 

[Canna Sylvan]

Lokie,
You listen to your guru! I'm now going on 10 years of marriage and have three kids. I still get some once to twice a week or more if we have time. Mrs right won't be the friend zone. You'll fuck more than my avitar does.

 

[Canna Sylvan]

Kuroi,
As you know women have urges just as much or more than men. They know real fast if you're worth it. If not they put you in the friend zone. We men don't have to take that. We have feelings too. You can go all drama queen on another sucker.

 

[lokie]

ok maybe a little more info: only enough to clear this post. meds are a bitch at times.

found my mate 25 years ago she could have had me thrown under the bus and then have the driver back up over me again just for spite., she never has. = the trust i place in her.

no details, just that there is no infidelities involved, so if your waiting to fap you need to go to styleproject,.com.

the very foundation of trust in out relationship caved in about a week ago. I know it is lots of work ahead, heavens knows she has put up with me this long so I'm ready to go all all out. however there are 2 impasses that I WILL NOT meet nor discuss here.

 

[lokie]

Lokie,
You listen to your guru! I'm now going on 10 years of marriage and have three kids. I still get some once to twice a week or more if we have time. Mrs right won't be the friend zone. You'll fuck more than my avitar does.

did you miss the 25 years part or thr
part 40%- 60%? LLOL

 

[Canna Sylvan]

lokie,
Like two others here, I had no idea what you meant with that post, sorry. I did a find text and didn't find any 40% or 60% you were talking about. To have been 25 years, I'd been 14. Nintendo was my mate then.

 

[lokie]

THE 40 60 COMES FROM A REFERENCE TO ANOTHER THREAD. i AM KIND A STEALTH THAT WAY.
i POST ALL OVER. ONLY SMALL BITS IN SOME AND REAL SAGAS IN OTHERS. THE LADIES LOVE MY TENDER SIDE.

TO BAD i'M HITCHED.

 

[cannabineer]

Lokie,
You listen to your guru! I'm now going on 10 years of marriage and have three kids. I still get some once to twice a week or more if we have time. Mrs right won't be the friend zone. You'll fuck more than my avitar does.

Lagomorphic baby porn? cn

 

[RightyMcquick]

found my mate 25 years ago she could have had me thrown under the bus and then have the driver back up just for spite., she never has.

no details, just that there is no infidelities involved, so if your waiting to fap you need to go to styleproject,.com.

the vervy foundation of trust caved in. I know it is lots of work, heavens knows shee's put up with me this long I'm ready to go all in except 2 points of oposing opinion. . not to be didcisused online.

WTF?

The fiove finger girl?
1) find em
2) feei em
3)foinger em
4 Fuckem
AND
5 forget em.

this dude is not looking for mrs right,
just ms right now.

AGAIN, WTF?

ok maybe a little more info: only enough to clear this post. meds are a bitch at times.

you should talk to your doctor...

found my mate 25 years ago she could have had me thrown under the bus and then have the driver back up over me again just for spite., she never has. = the trust i place in her.

no details, just that there is no infidelities involved, so if your waiting to fap you need to go to styleproject,.com.

the very foundation of trust in out relationship caved in about a week ago. I know it is lots of work ahead, heavens knows she has put up with me this long so I'm ready to go all all out. however there are 2 impasses that I WILL NOT meet nor discuss here.

what are you bringing to my discussion?

did you miss the 25 years part or thr
part 40%- 60%? LLOL

obviously.

THE 40 60 COMES FROM A REFERENCE TO ANOTHER THREAD. i AM KIND A RETARDED THAT WAY.
i POST ALL OVER. ONLY SMALL BITS IN SOME AND REAL SAGAS IN OTHERS. THE LADIES LOVE MY TENDER SIDE.

TO BAD i'M HITCHED.

WHY? and slightly edited...

 

[RightyMcquick]

Most people here know this already.

Even though you've shat all over my feelings I'm going to open up and empathise with you.

How you feel is how I felt all my life. Always being the one to make up for the girlfriend's shortcomings, meet the family, move in, even have the girlfriend as me to buy lingerie for the man I wanted on her birthday, patch their relationship up etc. Watch him all over someone else and expect me to be ok with it. same with every guy I ever liked. One even told me he did live me, but he wouldn't date me because I was actually good for him.So, make me feel guilty over your unhappiness but don't let me fix it.

I know what this heartbreak feels like. I cried myself to sleep every night for years over it. I still can't hear his voice without falling apart. I miss him but when I see him and come away again I feel like I'm dying inside.

But along comes a man who truly loves me for me. If it's real love, the bond will always be there but it will be 'different' and less painful WHEN, not if the right one comes along.

I thought no one would ever love me, and I am precious to someone now, which makes me want to love myself more as well as him.

It'll happen for you eventually hun x

REALLY?
i'd love to see where i "shat" all over your feelings... generally i see myself as a kind person, most of the time. i don't remember ever being offensive towards you... and i don't have that many posts, so after a quick review of my post history, i see nothing that could be construed as such. i am actually kind of offended by that statement. i know, it's the internet... but show me where i shat on your feelings... smh

 

[welshsmoker]

fear. insecurity. hope. failure. judgement. regret. all these things surround me, as i try to make it through.
my feelings are as they seem; true, but then why are they causing me to wish that i didn't have any at all?
i am scarred that what i feel is wrong.
trying to deal with the insecurity of liking a friend more than just a friend can be a very slippery slope.
all i can do is hope. some people say that their partner is also their best friend. why can't my best friend be my partner...
partner?
i don't want to say a word for fear that i will lose it all, but if i don't how long will
this sense of hopelessness last? if i do grow a pair and say something, is that fair? what kind of judgement
will be passed... will everything end up in the past? when i think about myself and the way i feel,
i cant help but think about why im down, and how you bring me up. i want more, maybe for selfish reasons, but
if nobody were selfish nobody would get ahead. i'm alone in this body and always will be,
i just don't want to be alone in this life, and never should be. why is it wrong? is it wrong? in my head my thoughts
are fighting each other leaving me looking for a break. i just want you to feel the same, but hoping that someone
will feel a certain way is futile and juvenile. i need to get over it, but how???

nice poem mate, you should write some more you got a talent there. chin up. and all the best.