Rough Sex, BDSM, The men & women who love it, and its applications.

Kodank Moment

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I fucking love rough sex, bdsm, and feeling like I could never have better sex without it.

Discuss. I love choking a girl, giving it to her hard until she screams and loses control of her body. Rope is so fun.

I've recently become a Dom to a submissive sex slave. Wow. Amazing. We've never been more satisfied.

What do you like about rough sex?
 

tyler.durden

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I do like it a little rough, nothing with rope or bondage although I have tried handcuffs a couple of times. Not that I'm against it, I just haven't met those girls. I dated a girl for a while that liked me to slap and spank her, I warmed up to it slowly by slapping her ass and legs hard before I could hit her in the face. I didn't draw blood or leave a bruise, it was an open hand and it was more role-play. I do like to lightly choke a woman and/or pull her hair while I'm fucking her hard, sometime they're into it, but mostly not. I had a great friend who was a woman for which BDSM was a life style and even met her Dom who she called master, even in public. I'd probably try that if a woman asked, you make it sound great...
 

Kodank Moment

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I do like it a little rough, nothing with rope or bondage although I have tried handcuffs a couple of times. Not that I'm against it, I just haven't met those girls. I dated a girl for a while that liked me to slap and spank her, I warmed up to it slowly by slapping her ass and legs hard before I could hit her in the face. I didn't draw blood or leave a bruise, it was an open hand and it was more role-play. I do like to lightly choke a woman and/or pull her hair while I'm fucking her hard, sometime they're into it, but mostly not. I had a great friend who was a woman for which BDSM was a life style and even met her Dom who she called master, even in public. I'd probably try that if a woman asked, you make it sound great...
It's amazing. I care for her like no other. She calls me master in the room and sir in public. You form an intense bond you'll never have any other way. It's not all about pain or humiliation. There is a lot of passion and I would never hurt her in a way she didn't want.
 

greenswag

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I personally love giving them a choke (obviously not making them unable to breathe, if so only for a very short 1-2 second moment), pulling their hair, slapping their ass, things like that. I've never used any props except handcuffs once and it just wasn't for me, she really liked it, but I prefer to just hold their hands above their head and things like that, with my own body instead of actually using rope or handcuffs. That could change though if I warm up to it.

Most girls I've been with love it when I give them the choke or pull their hair, it's been less common where they don't like it, and after being with multiple girls in a row that like it, it's a hard habit to break. They would like to have their hair pulled discreetly in public in stores and such, and coming from that to a girl who doesn't like it I've said "oops lol, sorry forgot" multiple times :oops: Currently single but I've been messing around and enjoying the company of a girl lately who I've dated in the past and LOVES the dom-submissive stuff, if I remember she may actually be the girl who first introduced me to it.

If you do find a girl who likes it, I've found in my personal experience if you do things like this well, it makes the sex infinitly better. It can go from plain jane sex, to where the girl is cumming multiple times and (one of my personal amazing achievements when it first happened) squirting. Really does make sex more fun and interesting. The same can be said though when you have romantic foreplay beforehand, which I also enjoy. The complete opposite end of the spectrum lol
 

Kodank Moment

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I personally love giving them a choke (obviously not making them unable to breathe, if so only for a very short 1-2 second moment), pulling their hair, slapping their ass, things like that. I've never used any props except handcuffs once and it just wasn't for me, she really liked it, but I prefer to just hold their hands above their head and things like that, with my own body instead of actually using rope or handcuffs. That could change though if I warm up to it.

Most girls I've been with love it when I give them the choke or pull their hair, it's been less common where they don't like it, and after being with multiple girls in a row that like it, it's a hard habit to break. They would like to have their hair pulled discreetly in public in stores and such, and coming from that to a girl who doesn't like it I've said "oops lol, sorry forgot" multiple times :oops: Currently single but I've been messing around and enjoying the company of a girl lately who I've dated in the past and LOVES the dom-submissive stuff, if I remember she may actually be the girl who first introduced me to it.

If you do find a girl who likes it, I've found in my personal experience if you do things like this well, it makes the sex infinitly better. It can go from plain jane sex, to where the girl is cumming multiple times and (one of my personal amazing achievements when it first happened) squirting. Really does make sex more fun and interesting. The same can be said though when you have romantic foreplay beforehand, which I also enjoy. The complete opposite end of the spectrum lol

I'm glad I made this here and toke n talk. Completely different threads about the same thing.

A LOT of women tend to be inherently submissive because of society, so the hair and light choking are very vanilla

I could tell you some things my slave likes, but I would be hear forever. Talk to her about it. Read about being a Dom on your own, see if its for you. Then jump in, take a little dip. Then dive in. It's really fun. :) I love it because I know she trusts me with her life. She has too. She wants too. That's a powerful feeling that gets me harder then I've ever been.
 

greenswag

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I'm glad I made this here and toke n talk. Completely different threads about the same thing.

A LOT of women tend to be inherently submissive because of society, so the hair and light choking are very vanilla

I could tell you some things my slave likes, but I would be hear forever. Talk to her about it. Read about being a Dom on your own, see if its for you. Then jump in, take a little dip. Then dive in. It's really fun. :) I love it because I know she trusts me with her life. She has too. She wants too. That's a powerful feeling that gets me harder then I've ever been.
Definitly man I'm skyping with her right now and I'll bring it up lol. Gonna read up on it too lol. I know lol, I originally saw this on toke-n-talk and decided to see if you posted it here.
 
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