Because I've had inherently nastier people say nastier things to me, people irrefutably horrible yet still if I ever retaliated I would get attacked for it. "How come she is allowed to say xyz"? So it doesn't matter who is in the right, taking the opportunity to let your nasty side out only leaves you open to attack or makes you stoop to their level
I don't want to be in a position where people think I'm a bitch for standing up for whatI thought was right again and I'm sure you don't either. I'm just sick of the bullshit fighting here. You won't achieve anything by telling Bid he is a piece of shit for something he said unthinkingly and off the cuff, out of anger. It wasn't calculated or trolling or even said with real malicious intent I don't think, but it was out of order. He reacted badly because Sunni didn't behave in a way he wanted or expected (that is not to say its wrong), and he genuinely cannot see anything other than that.
Its kind of different to someone being a bastard just to be a bastard, even if he is a bastard. More twisted people have been allowed to go unpunished r have been agreed with on this forum.
What he said to Sunni was awful, but I've seen much worse.