is this a date or a friend thing??

[NoobgrowerLbc]

I have been trying to hook up with this girl whom recently got dump by her ex for another girl. So i have been flattering her by saying sweet things i asked her out and she said ya. I flirted around and she says i dont want a bf and believed to be not ready. I was kinda bummed till she ask when ima take her out. I told her that i like her and she seemed flattered. Since its the first time going out i suggest we meet up so if she feel wierd about me she can make a smooth exit. She says she dont wanna drive and perfer i pick her up at 11pm for dinner and drink alcohol. She also said she is shy but will open up to me sooner or later. She is aware that i like her, and our dinner is looking like a date. I wonder if she thinks of me as a friend or potential boyfriend?

 

[hzbodin]

She might just wanna fuck. never know

 

[DonPepe]

She might just wanna fuck. never know

we can always hope right? but 9 times out of 10 its gonna cost you some money if you want her to get serious.

 

[kinetic]

If you want to be really serious with her you may not want to fuck her right away if she's drunk and presented with the opportunity. I had a similar situation a long time ago and went for it right away and just ended up being the rebound. Just opinion based on my own experience. Good Luck

 

[Dr. Greenhorn]

sounds like she wants to smash.

 

[kinddiesel]

yeah take her out to a nice dinner and buy the drinks for her pina coloda what ever and if you have your own place invite her over youlll get it all !!! or if u dont have your own place just push her head into your lap in the car !!!!!! fun fun good luck

 

[Indagrow]

Well sir I would recommend you start with straight shots and then pop bottles, fuck wiith hood rats and then top models.. Ya dig?

If you're not looking to just be a rebound, then don't hump on the first date.. Defiantly initiate some physical contact tho just don't have intentions of following through. You can read what she is feeling through this contact. To whify do all that and walk her to the door give her a kiss and let her know it was refreshing to be with a down to each or whatever adj you think she will like the best girl like her and you shoukd do it more often reafirm to her that the night was fun and wish her good night and be off

That whole being a rebound guy thing is what you make it, if done right she will think of the ex before you as a waste of time she could have been with you... If anything he is there to make you look better

 

[cannabineer]

She's calibrating your tolerance for high maintenance ... tough customer. cn

 

[ClaytonBigsby]

Ohhhhh boy. You are definitely getting it in. As far as a gf, it won't last long if you smother her with it. Just go out and have fun, let her know you are there for her and take it slow. Let her dicktate the relationship part.


























Don't play nice guy. She wants to get revenge fucked. Do it;.....do it well.

 

[kinddiesel]

been with my wife 16 years , now if you dont get any the first or sec date for get it man, not ment to be your gona score if u get her a few drinks , and shell spend night youll take her out for breakfast and set later plans, listen to ( kinddiesel ) !!! im the shit

 

[GreatwhiteNorth]

You're picking her up @ 11:00 pm for dinner ?
That seems a bit late, do you have decent restaurants in your area that serve at that time of night ?

 

[Johnny Retro]

If he lives in a big city that's perfectly normal..a bit early, actually.

 

[NoobgrowerLbc]

Thought it was a week but in reality i only know her for 2-3 days. If i can smash on the first date i will. As for being at 11pm she wanted it at that time. The only confusion is how do i smash if she dont want a bf.

 

[NoobgrowerLbc]

Alao she told me she rarely drinks but down to drink when we go out.

 

[hzbodin]

Thought it was a week but in reality i only know her for 2-3 days. If i can smash on the first date i will. As for being at 11pm she wanted it at that time. The only confusion is how do i smash if she dont want a bf.

are you serious?

Alao she told me she rarely drinks but down to drink when we go out.

dude she just wants to fuck. take advantage

 

[theloadeddragon]

if your emotionally interested, dont "smash" on the first one. Sounds like a rebound/self esteem thing that has a lot to do with her emotions about herself not you. If your not emotionally into her... smash away, saying she doesnt want a boyfriend is saying she still feels the sting of her last relationship, cater to her emotions and self esteem if you want a relationship as well as physically (just make her show you thats what she wants to by Not "smashing" on the first "date"). If your emotionally into her, and you smash on the first date..... your setting yourself up to get hurt.

 

[Alexander Supertramp]

She might just wanna fuck. never know

Its what it sounds like too me...

 

[slowbus]

hopefully Budsmoker will chime in for some dating advice.We all know he 's the RIU stud.On second thought that won't help,I doubt anyone else here is into date rape and young kids.

 

[theloadeddragon]

hopefully Budsmoker will chime in for some dating advice.We all know he 's the RIU stud.On second thought that won't help,I doubt anyone else here is into date rape and young kids.

I couldnt get laid if I tried.... and no I dont try.... wouldnt wish my pathetic inadequacies on any lady I would be attracted to or interested in...

my advice is just.... a quiet voice you might want to consider....

 

[kenny ken 77]

I couldnt get laid if I tried.... and no I dont try.... wouldnt wish my pathetic inadequacies on any lady I would be attracted to or interested in...

my advice is just.... a quiet voice you might want to consider....

Shit you bruv! Are you sure you are not my clone on another continent?
then saying that I guess I'm your clone,being the younger of us two...lol.
seriously though,a lot of your woes so mirror my own.
though fortunately for me I have no dependants.
lucky for you your little ones keep you in check.
Good for you bro.