Does "unconditional love" exist?

[silasraven]

its hard to know at all.

 

[sunni]

Hate the sin, not the sinner even if it's hard. Most of you don't believe in god, but If you find unconditional love hard to comprehend, like the concept of God, it comes as no surprise that God is capable of such; we're abhorrent creatures as a whole... Surprised we get away with as much as we do....

Christians believe they should try and be like god/Jesus and sometimes people just need your love to change (I get inbox confessions/apologies/people wanting to turn over a new leaf a lot because I decided to show love instead of retaliate) failing that, if all the love of earthly people and reformation programs doesn't work, then they need jesus lol

Jesus believes in tough love too, mind you... God is love but some people in the bible have had to go through some shit to change... Don't think unconditional love earns giving serial killer rapists a pat on the back and saying 'it's ok'!

I don't want to start a religios debate but that's just my $0.02 Should probably be in your section though PadPad x

since when have oyu become all religious ?

 

[Granny weed]

Do you love anyone who could do literally anything to you or to someone else and you'd still love them the same?

If your brother was a serial killer, your uncle was an active pedophile, your grandma cooked meth and sold it it kindergartners.. would you still love them unconditionally?

Yes their is an unconditional love the love you have for your children, no matter what my children did I could not stop loving them. We have always told our kids no matter what you do in your life you must always tell us the truth, we cannot help you if you lie to us and we will always try to help you and love you. This has always worked for us our kids have always told us what they've done even if we didn't like what we were being told which has been the case on many occasions, you might not like them sometimes but love that's a different matter love is something that you can't turn off especially when it's your kids unfortunate but true.

 

[guitarjamman]

I love my dog unconditionally - if she poops on the rug I still love her. I love my wife to extreme extents and would take a bullet for her, but she has the capability to know right from wrong. She can think on a higher level and weigh the pros and cons of her actions before commiting them, therefore I hold her to a higher standard than I do my dog.

If my dog was giving another man kisses, I would smile and feel good on the inside. If my wife was giving another man kisses..............

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

since when have oyu become all religious ?

Since when? I've always been open about my faith on this forum. I may be liberal, I'm not going to pretend I'm holy or perfect because I'm a kinky, bisexual, polyamorous, pot-smoking wolf girl, but my faith is my faith.

 

[brimck325]

religion n spirituality.....religious people go to church, spiritual people have been there...i think most find unconditional love when they have children,i did!!!....peace

 

[ThE sAtIvA hIgH]

Even if she enjoyed killing little kids?

well yes i dont think you can ever stop loving your child ( well i couldnt anyway), if she was killing kids then id have to say shes had a complete mental breakdown, cause thats not the person i know , so id still love her because i would know that she isnt mentally well and thats not how she would normally behave if she was sound minded .

 

[Dislexicmidget2021]

The thing about love,is that it is certainly conditional.I think for conditional love to develope for someone,you have to go through all condition of emotion that can possibly happen to you with that person,hate,jealousy,fear,sadness,etc..If that love still exists after every range of emotion has been experienced with them or if they are very well loved and they pass away ,that love could possibly mature to unconditional IMO.

 

[charface]

I have no choice about who I love.
I love my kids unconditionally I think I`m just wired like that.
Now do I support the things you mentioned? NO!
I may not be able to comprehend how they could do those things but I feel as if I would still love the other part of them.
I really do not know for sure but that is the feeling I get

 

[cheechako]

omg have you seen dexter? 9/10 for me, and yes unconditional love is possible, dexter has a good twist on this topic, his sister (step) is in love with him but hes a serial killer yada yada yada.

Hmm. Of course it exists! I saw it on TV!

 

[ArcticGranite]

I believe unconditional love exists and I believe I "felt" it when my daughters entered this world. There were so many strong feelings that came with their births. Nowadays- there's times I'd trade em for a broken road cone and a warm beer! They're teenagers, I'm a stinky, stupid old man.

 

[Silicity]

Hmm. Of course it exists! I saw it on TV!

obviously tv is staged? i know this? i was just saying the show dexter has a good twist on love, not that its proof, i just love the show haha

 

[Silicity]

some things you must never let go.I have an Inmate Mentality when it comes to some types of people.You gotta judge sometimes

of course, you need to do whatever you need to to be safe, i wouldnt let anyone near my children if they were a phedophile for my kids sake and our safety, i just dont have the hate some people do and in the world we live in its better to accept than live in fear, my living situation allows me to not worry about the "shittier" things in life, i try to surround myself with good people as its easier for my lifestyle.

@padawan

i dont judge i "understand" when we have the amount of people we do its going to have a few different people, and when these people have wanted or thoight about it or even spur of the moment then well its been lying dormant, everyone has choices in life yes i jist believe that regardless of how they had been their whole life it all comes down to their chemical makeup at birth, these people dont have control over who they will be at birth and i see it more like that, and evil has only been defined by other people, not a set standard of life, we choose whats right and wrong.

 

[cannabineer]

To the opening question: yes, but often there is a string attached. cn

 

[MojoRison]

I would think it's a yin and yang, you can't have complete love without utter despair, each measures the other.

Ask the Dahmers if they still love Jeff {strictly an example}

 

[cannabineer]

I would think it's a yin and yang, you can't have complete love without utter despair, each measures the other.

Ask the Dahmers if they still love Jeff {strictly an example}

The must have ... they taught him "always use a condiment" cn

 

[racerboy71]

i've never had kids, but i don't see how you wouldn't have unconditional love for your kid.. idk, you brought it into the world, it's a part of you, if you don't love it, you more then likely don't love yourself imo..
also, animals, i believe can show unconditional love for an owner, but idk if that's what this thread is really asking, but i'd say a loving dog would die for it's owner..
just my $.02

 

[D3monic]

My exwife cheated on me, left me, ruined my life and made me almost kill myself on a dozen occasions but I still love her unconditionally and would take her back in a heart beat.... well there's usually conditions and they aren't too favorable.

 

[sunni]

My exwife cheated on me, left me, ruined my life and made me almost kill myself on a dozen occasions but I still love her unconditionally and would take her back in a heart beat.... well there's usually conditions and they aren't too favorable.

dislike x a trillion

 

[xKuroiTaimax]

I think if you really loved someone you'll never stop loving them...Sorry to hear that Demonic. What if you two were in an open relationship or a poly relationship if she loved someone else too? If she suddenly decided she just 'didnt love you anymore' anx ditched you without remorse, I will cry because you are too lovely.