My Dad was like my brother is the type relationship we had. We where tight. Even though I was adopted by my Gparents, and there son was my actuall Dad, and they didn't tell me until I was like 14, which was a major blow 4 me! Being raised near half my younger years as them my parents, and then boom!! And then I had 6 years with my "Dad" until he passed at the age of 45. I really enjoyed the time I did have with him though.Don't get me wrong, I still looked at my G parents as my Mom & Dad, and even called my Grandad "Dad" until the day he passed away, which was 2 years ago this month. And my real Mother doesn't have shit to do with me, never has. Or should I say "we" don't have shit to do with each other. Now my Momaw on the other hand, that's my "Mom"!! She is and always be more of a mother to me then the mother that had me!! She was there 4 me when my "real" mother was out "partying" & having a "good" time.. Go figure..