It is NOT backwards. First picture shows a closed calyx (before the pistils shoot out) and the 2nd picture is an opened calyx with the pistils out. They are probably a picture of the same plant showing the pre-flower and then a week or so later showing it flowered.Did I label them backwards? If so, my mistake.
I really don't think that bottom one is a fem, I've never seen the extra appendage on my females, but if the pic is wrong, I'll quit showing it.
If I could remember where I found it, I'd mention it to them, but who knows, I found it surfing one night.
You have grown before havent you?