Good B-day gift for new GF???

LadyZandra

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Feminist? NO WY! All I am saying is don't be so generic-- be origonal and base the gift on the GIRL- not your preconceived notion of what she SHOULD want!

And I've been with my Husband for 25 years- married 23....... Happily for both. WHY? We both like the same music/movies/politics/etc.. and treat each other with respect and love and care about what the other person wants/needs...
and don't go all "he must be gay" type shit-- he's ex navy Seal, Golden Gloves Boxer and still damned Hot for an older guy...
And I wait on him hand and foot because I want to and I don't tell him what to do/say or "you can't do that"....That's how I was brought up.... the OPPOSITE of a feminist-- I take shit from other women about it all the time... doesn't mean that because You MEN don't agree with a WOMANS point of view that YOU are right and She (or I ) is/am a femi-nazi.... we/I just know from our own experience and the fact that we know other women a hell of a lot better than men do-- just because we tell each other stuff we sure as hell won't tell a man!!
 

Kodank Moment

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Feminist? NO WY! All I am saying is don't be so generic-- be origonal and base the gift on the GIRL- not your preconceived notion of what she SHOULD want!

And I've been with my Husband for 25 years- married 23....... Happily for both. WHY? We both like the same music/movies/politics/etc.. and treat each other with respect and love and care about what the other person wants/needs.
and don't go all "he must be gay" type shit-- he's ex navy Seal, Golden Gloves Boxer and still damned Hot for an older guy...
And I wait on him hand and foot because I want to and I don't tell him what to do/say or "you can't do that"....That's how I was brought up.... the OPPOSITE of a feminist-- I take shit from other women about it all the time... doesn't mean that because You MEN don't agree with a WOMANS point of view that YOU are right and She (or I ) is/am a femi-nazi.... we/I just know from our own experience and the fact that we know other women a hell of a lot better than men do-- just because we tell each other stuff we sure as hell won't tell a man!!
Exactly. They've been together 2 months, you found your soul mate. You are aslo much older then the current generation, things have drastically changed, yes even courting women.
 

LadyZandra

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You just generalized every man. Not allowed. Withdrawn. Shit. Women also. Have you fucked a girl who just lays there? Didn't think so.

How long have you been single?
Wait--
#1- was meant as a JOKE-- you guys make sexual comments & jokes and shit all the time.. jeeze-- touchy

#2-- I generalized? WTF you think this ENTIRE thread was? You Guys generalizing what women want!

#3- Uh- No I have never Fucked a girl period- don't swing that way... but a lot of GUYS are lazy fucks- literally.

#4-Havent been single in 25 years.... and never been dumped in my life. I treat a man well and expect to be treated with a bit of respect and love in return- or I walk!


The Guy wants LEGIT Gift Ideas-- I gave it to Him. YOU may not agree-then again- YOU are not a woman! (?)
 

xGrimace

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God! How many of you guys have actually been in a long-term relationship?
Why do guys think THEY KNOW all about women?

YES- a teddy bear works IF she's that kind of person-- especially if you go get a baby T-shirt and have your name + her name or I <3 (her name) printed on it at the Mall...

Easter is comming- a basket with flowers, candy, and plastic eggs that YOU put little notes about how you feel in them.

Make dinner (or order-in if you can't cook) and ask around about what HER favorite Movie is... TV a movie- do some special dessert (whatever is her fave) then take her out dancing.

YES: many women are about the little things-- however- unfortunately... just like there are a lot of men who believe in the BBD... a lot of women do too..
KNOW YOUR WOMAN!
No matter what you do- if it is focused on her and what SHE likes - not what a bunch of GUYS tell you a woman wants... morning dick- give me a F-ing break! We (and YOU) have Morning breath, possibly a hang-over if you go out to party, look and feel like crap etc....let HER decide & make the move- otherwise BAD MOVE!!!

Remember -- it's you GUYS who work on 90% hormones 10% everything else (and I'm being generous) when it comes to relationships.... you have to look at it from a woman's view of what is romantic, and acceptable for this stage of the relationship- not yours!
Damn I wanna say something, but I dont wanna start an internet fight, they dangerous. :joint:
 

LadyZandra

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my advice? buy a P90X or Insanity work out tape, for now taker her out to dinner but those workout regimen will be paying dividends.
If you are gonna get her workout DVD's at LEAST get something you can BOTH enjoy-- like Pole-dancing or Strip-aerobics!
I still can't believe you guys took this poor guys post asking for GIFT IDEAS and got it going into such a sexist thing..... Yeah- I admit- I threw sterno on the fire (MY BAD!!) but really!?
 

xGrimace

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LOL I just bought a girlfriend Brazil Butt Lift! But why would I dare do that stuff... ok maybe 2 minutes ONLY, just to loosen up the joints :P
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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If you are gonna get her workout DVD's at LEAST get something you can BOTH enjoy-- like Pole-dancing or Strip-aerobics!
I still can't believe you guys took this poor guys post asking for GIFT IDEAS and got it going into such a sexist thing..... Yeah- I admit- I threw sterno on the fire (MY BAD!!) but really!?
the video was for him to use and her to enjoy the results of, the dinner and a night out was for her, him and his wallet can lament on it.
 

LadyZandra

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LOL! I have all kinds of sex-aerobics, Strip-Aerobics, and I used to teach Belly Dancing (LONG ago) so have a lot of those around too... guys can not only enjoy the tapes- but watch their GF/Wife practice-- then shower together after.....

but hey- I'm being sexist! (JK!)
 

KushXOJ

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LOL! I have all kinds of sex-aerobics, Strip-Aerobics, and I used to teach Belly Dancing (LONG ago) so have a lot of those around too... guys can not only enjoy the tapes- but watch their GF/Wife practice-- then shower together after.....

but hey- I'm being sexist! (JK!)

Pics or it didn't happen...
 

KushXOJ

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Lol if you get her a workout dvd for her bday you better prepare to be single the next day ....
 

Omgwtfbbq Indicaman

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Lol if you get her a workout dvd for her bday you better prepare to be single the next day ....
damnit... i meant for him to get the dvd and workout, get in shape, that will pay dividends... damn my writing is confusing, gotta smoke something clearer-headed lol.
 

LadyZandra

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LOL!!!! And no- not posting proof-- too damned old for that... some of these young-uns will have nightmares.... ;)
 
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