I honestly have no idea how to do this. It's completely not in my nature. If someone yells at me and insults me everything in my being says Attack. Wife keeps reminding me after our fights how hormonal she is. Doesn't help much after the fight. Like seriously, what should I think/ do when she just rips my head off for nothing? That's an honest question... what do you have run through your head?Don't forget that your wife's hormones are all out of wack, just be prepared to get yelled at for absolutely no reason in the up coming weeks/next few months.
Damn if i was as well written that could be me typing that. The only thing i can really do to get on is rippin the bong, and slowly, not forgetting, but just not careing. She will eventually find out she was wrong, she wont directly admit it. But you know when shes totally opposite of 10 mins ago, she realised. Its kinda sad. But hope it all comes together when she gets to be a mother which she is so desperately wanting. sry for the spelling and rambling but damn i feel your frustration pal.I honestly have no idea how to do this. It's completely not in my nature. If someone yells at me and insults me everything in my being says Attack. Wife keeps reminding me after our fights how hormonal she is. Doesn't help much after the fight. Like seriously, what should I think/ do when she just rips my head off for nothing? That's an honest question... what do you have run through your head?
I totally feel ya broI honestly have no idea how to do this. It's completely not in my nature. If someone yells at me and insults me everything in my being says Attack. Wife keeps reminding me after our fights how hormonal she is. Doesn't help much after the fight. Like seriously, what should I think/ do when she just rips my head off for nothing? That's an honest question... what do you have run through your head?
wifey rips me a new asshole for being an asshole supposedly. says why are you yelling or raising your voice? becuz you were on the phone and couldnt hear me or in the other room or just not listening to what im saying and trying to make or come to your own conclusion. frustrating sometimes. but your wifey prego. shes aloud to be angry and emotional all the time. lol. mine on the other hand is just crazy. haha.First words out of my mouth to wife weren't taken well. Guess it was my tone. I swear to God I was just talking, and all of a sudden I'm a dick. And I guess what makes it worse is you guys/ RIU is my usual place to talk and vent, but this place is a big part of the reason I'm in such a foul mood. So it's like nothing's going well. Don't really want to be on the boards right now, but don't really want to be home either.
I get that my attitude makes it worse, I mean who wants to spend time with the pissed off guy lol. Not very attractive the way I'm acting right now. But fuck it. I'm fucking frustrated. It's fucking stupid when you care more about peoples emotional state and well being than they do.
i close up and show my wifey she hurt my feelings by jumping on my ass for no reason. normally happens that time of the month. so hormones are a big part. just let her vent and keep quiet. stay quiet even after the argument or her yelling is over and tell her later why you have been quiet and how she hurt your feelings. ive found arguing back just makes things worst even if its all you want to do.I honestly have no idea how to do this. It's completely not in my nature. If someone yells at me and insults me everything in my being says Attack. Wife keeps reminding me after our fights how hormonal she is. Doesn't help much after the fight. Like seriously, what should I think/ do when she just rips my head off for nothing? That's an honest question... what do you have run through your head?
I wish my girl would apologize.i close up and show my wifey she hurt my feelings by jumping on my ass for no reason. normally happens that time of the month. so hormones are a big part. just let her vent and keep quiet. stay quiet even after the argument or her yelling is over and tell her later why you have been quiet and how she hurt your feelings. ive found arguing back just makes things worst even if its all you want to do.
on a side note after about an hour of me not talking to her she feels bad becuz she realized she was being a bitch and initiates the sorry convo.
i did this in the desert once. tried to light about 7 pallets stacked on fire with 5 gallons of mixed vp and 91 so the octane was somewhere about 105. lmao. boom. threw me like 10 ft and burnt the shit out of me. second and third degree burns. tattooed over the scars. but i didnt light it. i was just pooring the gas on it. one of the coals from the pit wasnt cool even tho we hadnt had a fir in like 13 hours. saw a flame and knew it was bad juju. booooooooooooom with me standing over it. no body hair left since i was wearing a pair of dickies pants and a hat. lmao. my goat mustache chest hair armpit hair arm hair. all gone. lmao. grew back thicker than before and im already a furry dude. makes manscaping a bitch. lmao.Jig, dont be these guys.
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I think bill is right though, you just gotta curl up in the fetal position and take the beating.
Try getting out and hiking for a few hours, that should help to relax your mind.
well the thing is i let her win the fight and if she wants to save our relationship she will talk to me. otherwise a few days of her gone or mia means im free as a bird. i just dont talk first. a wait for her.I wish my girl would apologize.
I want my kids with me in my home, so I apologize to her when she is wrong.
Its wrong, but its right ya know.
thats becuz you have 4 kids. lmao. you guys are both trapted and havent realized it yet. lol.I got 4 kids and I say fuck the hormones! You come to start some shit, pregnant or not its on! I see it as helping them get the hormones in check. You don't gotta roll over cuz she's pregnant, but hey that's me!