I've sat back and listened to you, so know it's time for you to sit down and listen.
I actually understand your need for this type of interaction, many feel the need to connect and if you have a common interest, well that makes for a more colourful exchange of ideas/ideals. And yet you have failed to see that in order to reciprocate we, as a group, must not be given ultimatums. There is no give and take with you, no such exchange, there must be a willingness to concede and to know when you've gained equal footing.
For you it's the "king of the mountain" and all others must bow to your whims.
A recluse who's hatred of himself is only more revealed when confronted with the logic of familial bonding.
Paraphrasing a note left on my dresser by my grandfather it was his way of saying smarten up the world doesn't revolve around you.