Damn guys I said i was going to bed ,didn't wanna have to wake up and read 10 pages of fighting. Anyway I said sorry for overreacting and she said srry for lying and we move on.
I have 1 bone to pick though, Flaming Pie.
You have jumped in like 5 times saying over a cat box wtf, cat couuld have used it again yadayada etc .. you don't seem to get the full situation
Here it is. Our cat does 1 shit a day ,always has. I, earlier in the morning was cleaning up and put a big broken piece of plastic in our bin that we empty the shit into,the cat had not done a shit yet at this stage.. Ok? So around midday i went for a nap and came down around 2pm to find the door to the cat litter try room closed, I asked why is this closed she replys "cats done a shit and i haven't cleaned it yet." Ok? Fast forward to 9 pm and it still isn't done, I think about doing it and then remember it aint my turn ,so no ,she isn't getting out of it and i say " you ain't gettin out of it today go and change it" ..enter the lie
Her " I already changed a cat shit today"
me " no you havent ,the cat doesn't shit twice a day"
her "yes he does "
me " emm no ,your lying "
her "Im Not!"
me "so your telling me the cat did a shit while i was in bed in the space of 2 hours and now has done another 1?"
her"yes"
me " bs"
Her " I swear on my life"
At this stage i almost accept it ,THEN i look in the bin and the bit of plastic etc from earlier was still there. I showed it to her and she knew she was caught .
And it doesn't matter what its about man, a lie is a lie. If shes prepared to lie about this lying about more serious stuff could have or be abouut to happen. Why tell a pointless lie?
Anyway I d ask her today "why?" and she confirmed my assumption that it was not meant to escalate to were it got to, she said i was right to get mad though.
it's over anyway, all sorted. Yes to the guy who said is this the first lie told or caught.. probably caught, but who knows, can't dwell on it . Oldtimer ,yeh i love her, we got a kid ,liv together etc..