life turned upside down...in one day

Mr.Vega

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So my wife and I have been having issues for months now...every fight we got into she's threatening to kick me out and threatening the plants and blah blah blah...she has 3 kids and we're buying the house off her fam so its obvious who's goin when the shit really goes down but u ain't gotta throw it in my face every time...so it happened again two days ago..bad fight and I gotta go...for real this time...I had four plants..all flowering..one at day 60 I chopped and will prolly dry out to round 3ozs...one at week five..one at week 2..and one at week one...gave all those to the only other grower I knw in the area and he sd he'd give me half of each ones harvest..the 5 weeker was my own cross of querkle bubbleicious..it was my baby and was so excited abt this plant...so I bbroke everything down packed my shit and left w my lights..3 shoe boxes full of buds and my dog...sitting in a hotel til I get a couple paychecks stacked up n get a diff place...out of town this time so I can do outdoors too...she became jealous of my passion..growing...it really came down to either her or me growing..that's what most fights stemmed frm..I can't and shouldn't b w some1 like that...I have my genetics..my lights...and my dog....ima b alright:)
 

Mr.Vega

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Sorry to hear about your misfortune. Hopefully better times lay ahead.
Appreciate it bro...tried to "like ur reply but fones actin funny...really its all good man cause this now gives me the opporunity to focus 100% on growing which is what I wanna do...I can start fresh even finding the best place suitable for and indoor operation and outdoors...I'm def taking this and turning it into a positive situation and not a bad thing...bout two months or less and ill be up and running...better this time too.
 

puffdatchronic

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Good man, don't ever let a woman stand in the way of your own happiness.

Every one has the perfect woman out there somewhere , and yours will let you grow weed with no fights.

Girls who will pick on weed and weed growing and fight about it are control freaks , fuck that shit man, my girl is cool with it even though she don't smoke but if she wasn't i'd be away.
 

grorite

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So my wife and I have been having issues for months now...every fight we got into she's threatening to kick me out and threatening the plants and blah blah blah...she has 3 kids and we're buying the house off her fam so its obvious who's goin when the shit really goes down but u ain't gotta throw it in my face every time...so it happened again two days ago..bad fight and I gotta go...for real this time...I had four plants..all flowering..one at day 60 I chopped and will prolly dry out to round 3ozs...one at week five..one at week 2..and one at week one...gave all those to the only other grower I knw in the area and he sd he'd give me half of each ones harvest..the 5 weeker was my own cross of querkle bubbleicious..it was my baby and was so excited abt this plant...so I bbroke everything down packed my shit and left w my lights..3 shoe boxes full of buds and my dog...sitting in a hotel til I get a couple paychecks stacked up n get a diff place...out of town this time so I can do outdoors too...she became jealous of my passion..growing...it really came down to either her or me growing..that's what most fights stemmed frm..I can't and shouldn't b w some1 like that...I have my genetics..my lights...and my dog....ima b alright:)
head down to my area man send me a PM
 

Mr.Vega

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you,ll be back with her soon, so make a part two thread
Notta chance man...I textd her right before I bagged and moved and gave away my plants(which wasn't good for em broke a main top off the 5 weeker..mainlined for 8 beauties/lemon smell/triched out/my own strain that I bred myself)..if I give these plants away there's no goin bk...this is it and ill never return...she replied do what u gotta do I'm not coming home til ur gone...so that was it...I really loved those plants..all my plants..I really love growing and am very passionate and serious abt it...I work a full time plus overtime job and grow weed on the side to have a steady supply of medical smoke on hand at all time and simply cause I like plants...she took that away from me..it was a bad situation for several diff reasons and its really best for us both to go on....
 

Mr.Vega

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Thanks for all the replies guys...I've tried to "like" em all but fones actin up n won't let me.
 

B166ER420

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BITCHES!!!!In my experience they cannot stand when your having fun without them.YOUR plants,YOUR fun,she didn't like it.Sorry to hear it but at least they're not your kids.SHE needed to be let go,dude!COLORADO is calling your name.GL.peace
 

kinddiesel

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some people are impossible to be with ! just spend time with those 3 kids, they love you, and get a new woman. be happy.
 

Mr.Vega

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BITCHES!!!!In my experience they cannot stand when your having fun without them.YOUR plants,YOUR fun,she didn't like it.Sorry to hear it but at least they're not your kids.SHE needed to be let go,dude!COLORADO is calling your name.GL.peace
It certainly may be...and ur right on point w the she couldn't stand the plants and anytime I had to work w them was time away frm her...fuck that shit....ima def give CO a thougt tho...try my hand at growing for a living maybe the legal way...?????....we'll see....that's def my dream anyway
 

lykarckstar420

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Terrible man!!!! It tough to find a lady out there how is not only a great woman but lets you grow your medicine too.
Wish you a easy transition man
 

B166ER420

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It certainly may be...and ur right on point w the she couldn't stand the plants and anytime I had to work w them was time away frm her...fuck that shit....ima def give CO a thougt tho...try my hand at growing for a living maybe the legal way...?????....we'll see....that's def my dream anyway
Just let me know when you get your BITCH-free grow setup!....lol...I wanna see.I've seen you grow with cfl's:clap:I will assume you will start using hps/mh?.....maybe plasma grow lights?.....led's????............sorry man daydeaming about being single with no kids but you understand what im saying.STEP YOUR GAME UP!! :):):):
 

Mr.Vega

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Just let me know when you get your BITCH-free grow setup!....lol...I wanna see.I've seen you grow with cfl's:clap:I will assume you will start using hps/mh?.....maybe plasma grow lights?.....led's????............sorry man daydeaming about being single with no kids but you understand what im saying.STEP YOUR GAME UP!! :):):):
Yes the new set up will be a single mans set up...ha...ima step it up for sure...finaces allowing buiding as I go...
 

Confucious

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It certainly may be...and ur right on point w the she couldn't stand the plants and anytime I had to work w them was time away frm her...fuck that shit....ima def give CO a thougt tho...try my hand at growing for a living maybe the legal way...?????....we'll see....that's def my dream anyway
Colorado is nice for the legal grow, but from what I understand since they have passed it as recreational you have to be a resident for two years before they will allow you to get you card now and the other laws on rec probably wont go threw tell 2014. I haven't heard anything on you growing recreational in the state and not being a resident for two years. And way sorry about your position your in, I was dealing with a similar situation once and had to pack up everything and find somewhere to go with my ladies like two and half years ago and it sucked, but I kept a attitude as you are and am now doing great. So keep your head up Mr. Vega and I think your going to be just fine.
 
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