my mom lives a very traditional life in anon traditional way. she cooks and cleans, gardens , we just finished making the green on the house brown. but she also knows her plumbing , electrical work and is quite the handywoman. She wears make up does her hair dresses very nice and age appropriate..
she doesnt drink but she will smoke fat joints ! hahaha, her wife is a highly educated woman who teaches, and is a 5 star resturant chef. her food and place of business was rated one of the best places to eat in canada.
Anyone can have the white picket fence life, that is not beyond anyones means or lifestyle, its weather or not that person WANTS it, you can be straight and not what that type of life lol