I agree Don ( normally) there is two sides.
our relationship has been on the rocks for ages anyway, but now that I have finished uni for the year all she wanted me to do was to sit in front of the TV watching shitty reality TV, along with Jeremy Kyle, was mushing my brain, so I'd go off n do some work or whatever and that would translate into me being selfish and only doing what I want to do.
Apparently I'm smoking too much weed, even tho I smoke much less than I did when she met me 5yrs ago( I do still smoke too much maybe).
she felt that if she didn't have to go out or that no one was visiting that its cool to lounge on the sofa all day watching TV (this is looking after a 1yr old)
i would try to keep the house clean, she wouldn't.
Tried getting our daughter settled at night and did, staying up till 4am every morning to make sure my mrs got good sleep, yet I'm still selfish and only think of myself.
Its over now, and I'm defo not going bk this time, gonna concentrate on finishing my degree, and being there for my children.