Where Is My Mind?

[skunkd0c]

Many women find it so hard to get on with each other, especially when they are the new woman trying to join in with an already established clique of women lol
once a clique has been established new comers may find it impossible to fill any role in the new click other than a bitch or a whore

perhaps it is because deep down women know how manipulative and dishonest and ridden with jealousy they are, so i guess it is right for them to initially greet each other with caution

very often men have fights, physical fights, then become good friends after lol
i don't think women have evolved that far yet, most of them should be kept in cages as my old granddad used to say

 

[SlaveNoMore]

Indeed, I believe the media definitely plays a big role in how society feels like they should act and portray themselves, and women generally are shown as bitchy or snooty and with a 'perfect' body, whether it be fake or not. I feel like some guys deserve a fake stiff boobed woman though, because in the same way guys can be superficial too. I feel stupid now, but I was with a guy once that treated me like shit due to the fact I wasn't the fake made-up girl he'd normally try to date. He made me feel ugly and worthless without openly saying anything abusive.

oh definitely-- guy gossip is more chill/casual if anything. Guys also seem to not hold grudges over petty things like girls tend to do. Parcel of wearing a cock...LMAO! I don't think that could've been worded any better in such a semi-formal way xD

How old was this guy that treated you like shit? Was he the "player" type? What attracted you to him? Do you think his poor treatment affected your future relationships with both men and women?

I think you are on to something here. Perhaps these media imposed stereotypes were brought to fruition in your life. This is a shame.

 

[SlaveNoMore]

Many women find it so hard to get on with each other, especially when they are the new woman trying to join in with an already established clique of women lol
once a clique has been established new comers may find it impossible to fill any role in the new click other than a bitch or a whore

perhaps it is because deep down women know how manipulative and dishonest and ridden with jealousy they are, so i guess it is right for them to initially greet each other with caution

very often men have fights, physical fights, then become good friends after lol
i don't think women have evolved that far yet, most of them should be kept in cages as my old granddad used to say

Excellent post. So you think this type of female behavior is more natural rather than learned? You mentioned evolution so this is why I am asking. Just looking for your thoughts and not saying you are wrong either way because I don't know.

 

[skunkd0c]

well some women are in competition with each other for the attention of men
the ugly or smarter ones concentrate on their career or something

so the women see any new woman as a threat , i often hear women insulting other womens vagina's that's funny they get quite descriptive too
i don't often hear men insult each others genitals directly , when women do this they really seem to mean it with a passion
if they do not like the new girl, they will speculate mean things about her vagina for sure

another thing i have noticed, is when i am with a woman , other women seem more interested in me, than if i were alone
i think this could be for a few reasons, but i think women love the idea of being able to have another woman's man if they want to
it gives them a sense of sexual power lol and plays into the jealousy thing

 

[skunkd0c]

if two women turn up to the same event wearing the same outfit, the stereotype is they will fight lol
if two men did this they would most likely laugh

i do not think women are fighting for men, for the sake of men, it is to make each other jealous
i just wanted to point that out, in case i did not make that clear lol
i think a womans ego is directly linked to how jealous she can make her sister or best friend

peace

 

[SlaveNoMore]

Great posts...

 

[lolikun]

How old was this guy that treated you like shit? Was he the "player" type? What attracted you to him? Do you think his poor treatment affected your future relationships with both men and women?

I think you are on to something here. Perhaps these media imposed stereotypes were brought to fruition in your life. This is a shame.

He was only 25, so only 3 years older than me, and he....wasn't really a player at the time. He was getting over his girlfriend that cheated on him a year ago, and after me he did start to sleep around and get into the 'player' lifestyle. Like i was just something to build up his confidence then move on to something 'better.' What attracted me to him is we had the same interest in cars and he was fun to work on them with, we'd go and try and drift his BMW in parking garages and stuff...he was fun, I guess you can say.

but yeah, definitely affected my future relationships... I have a hard time meeting new people, just as friends even. Like its almost asking too much to find people who will like you for who you are as a person anymore, rather than your assets.

 

[SlaveNoMore]

He was only 25, so only 3 years older than me, and he....wasn't really a player at the time. He was getting over his girlfriend that cheated on him a year ago, and after me he did start to sleep around and get into the 'player' lifestyle. Like i was just something to build up his confidence then move on to something 'better.' What attracted me to him is we had the same interest in cars and he was fun to work on them with, we'd go and try and drift his BMW in parking garages and stuff...he was fun, I guess you can say.

but yeah, definitely affected my future relationships... I have a hard time meeting new people, just as friends even. Like its almost asking too much to find people who will like you for who you are as a person anymore, rather than your assets.

yes it is hard to meet real people who are confident enough with themselves that they can accept others the way they are. I think this is especially true of people in their 20's. I know that when I was in my 20's I was just in a hurry to fuck up.

 

[BygonEra]

well some women are in competition with each other for the attention of men
the ugly or smarter ones concentrate on their career or something

so the women see any new woman as a threat , i often hear women insulting other womens vagina's that's funny they get quite descriptive too
i don't often hear men insult each others genitals directly , when women do this they really seem to mean it with a passion
if they do not like the new girl, they will speculate mean things about her vagina for sure

another thing i have noticed, is when i am with a woman , other women seem more interested in me, than if i were alone
i think this could be for a few reasons, but i think women love the idea of being able to have another woman's man if they want to
it gives them a sense of sexual power lol and plays into the jealousy thing

This is very true. The (ex) friend I mentioned earlier is extremely insecure yet acts incredibly full of herself... if she doesn't think she's the hottest girl in the bar, or if guys don't treat her as such, she will either want to leave or throw a fit and talk about how shitty the bar is that night. I won't lie, it's a nice ego boost to go out and get a ton of attention from guys who offer to buy you drinks and such, but it's pretty screwed up to me that women will put on this fake front to get compliments and free drinks and then go talk about how gross the guy is to her friends, and act like he's pathetic for thinking he has a chance. I would never take a free drink from a guy if I was creeped out by him... only if I'm genuinely appreciative and intend to give him a chance. And yeah.. spot on about the vagina thing, lol had no idea that was a 'common' thing but god am I tired of hearing girls say "OMG I saw a pic of her vagina and it was fuckin GROSS!!! Like why would he even wanna touch that?!?!" Good god, get over yourselves...

 

[oldtimer54]

I married into a family that at some point years ago one of my wifes aunts killed her husband when he fell asleep by beating him with an iron......(OUCH) she got sentenced to 15 yrs and did about 9.......I've tried to be a good husband but u can believe this My ass does not go to sleep anywhere around a kitchen appliance.......that shit is for sure and when August ,14th comes we will have been married 36 years..........so If in the next several weeks my threads or responces to beardo, claytonbigsby,see4, unclebuck,stillbuzzin mysteriously cease......please contact the homocide department of your nearest town.village,borough,city and report my ass missing........cause something isnt right
SLEEPING WITH ONE EYE OPEN..........OLDTIMER54

 

[erbavore]

Women. Us men like to keep the peace. Women fight over more useless shit.

 

[SlaveNoMore]

This is very true. The (ex) friend I mentioned earlier is extremely insecure yet acts incredibly full of herself... if she doesn't think she's the hottest girl in the bar, or if guys don't treat her as such, she will either want to leave or throw a fit and talk about how shitty the bar is that night. I won't lie, it's a nice ego boost to go out and get a ton of attention from guys who offer to buy you drinks and such, but it's pretty screwed up to me that women will put on this fake front to get compliments and free drinks and then go talk about how gross the guy is to her friends, and act like he's pathetic for thinking he has a chance. I would never take a free drink from a guy if I was creeped out by him... only if I'm genuinely appreciative and intend to give him a chance. And yeah.. spot on about the vagina thing, lol had no idea that was a 'common' thing but god am I tired of hearing girls say "OMG I saw a pic of her vagina and it was fuckin GROSS!!! Like why would he even wanna touch that?!?!" Good god, get over yourselves...

This is actually refreshing to hear..

I didn't know women brought up the looks of other women's pink bits. I think most men appreciate any pink bit they can get close to.

 

[SlaveNoMore]

I married into a family that at some point years ago one of my wifes aunts killed her husband when he fell asleep by beating him with an iron......(OUCH) she got sentenced to 15 yrs and did about 9.......I've tried to be a good husband but u can believe this My ass does not go to sleep anywhere around a kitchen appliance.......that shit is for sure and when August ,14th comes we will have been married 36 years..........so If in the next several weeks my threads or responces to beardo, claytonbigsby,see4, unclebuck,stillbuzzin mysteriously cease......please contact the homocide department of your nearest town.village,borough,city and report my ass missing........cause something isnt right
SLEEPING WITH ONE EYE OPEN..........OLDTIMER54

LMAO!!!! Great post...I'll keep an eye out for you! LOL

 

[skunkd0c]

This is very true. The (ex) friend I mentioned earlier is extremely insecure yet acts incredibly full of herself... if she doesn't think she's the hottest girl in the bar, or if guys don't treat her as such, she will either want to leave or throw a fit and talk about how shitty the bar is that night. I won't lie, it's a nice ego boost to go out and get a ton of attention from guys who offer to buy you drinks and such, but it's pretty screwed up to me that women will put on this fake front to get compliments and free drinks and then go talk about how gross the guy is to her friends, and act like he's pathetic for thinking he has a chance. I would never take a free drink from a guy if I was creeped out by him... only if I'm genuinely appreciative and intend to give him a chance. And yeah.. spot on about the vagina thing, lol had no idea that was a 'common' thing but god am I tired of hearing girls say "OMG I saw a pic of her vagina and it was fuckin GROSS!!! Like why would he even wanna touch that?!?!" Good god, get over yourselves...

the men are just pawns in the woman's game of jealousy lol
its ok, though we get what we want out of it

women are sexual predators i think some men don't realise that, but i think women get a better buzz out of out-doing their friends etc
im sure women walk down the street thinking, yeah, i could fuck him or him, or him
but the guys they be talking about are with OTHER WOMEN lol, they like the idea of taking another womans man, as it makes them ALPHA female LOL

i also think men are more aware of each others need just to fuck , and they can also even help each other
men might even say "bro's before ho's and actually mean it
i do not think women are able to work together like this "bros before ho's kind of attitude and when it comes down to it, they are very much rivals,
as they know how hard men find to turn down sex and they know how easy it is for their friend to "go fuck their man" and they know how devious and manipulative they are lol

women function on a very deep level when it comes to outdoing each other with the little games they play , i cant keep up with it for the life of me
they talk about things that seem so remote and unrelated to me i just cant see the connection, but they are convinced SHE said that or did that because she is a jealous skanky bitch with a rancid crotch !

ok then lol
are you listening to me ? of course honey

 

[april]

Don't women realise it's the affection he has for her they crave not him lol

I never understand why women go after someone else's partner