Dankster I'm so sorry to hear about your mom, my wife and I went through this in the 1990's , you need to be strong, I want to ask and say some things to you even though I have NOT read this whole thread , just saw a caption and had to backtrack to this post.
my question is have you tried feeding her some Cannabis to help with her appetite ? seeing your title i can only assume that you have .
my wife went thru hell with this, her mom had breast cancer, had it removed, had a hysterectomy and then it just metastasized all over the body ending in bone cancer, the doctor was scared of malpractice and would NOT give her morphine, even though she was in screaming pain, so much for that hepocritical oath bullshit they recite .
the nurse was instructed to show my wife how to inject her mom and made to sign a bunch of releases, so for 2 years I stayed home with my four kids while my wife and one hired nurse took turn taking care of her, but the wife was the only one injecting her and keeping the pain at bay. her mom actually got more relief from Advil / Ibuprofen for her pains than Morphine. we had viles full of the stuff after her death, ended up draining them all in the back yard and disposing of the bottles.
this is why I'm in this scene now, trying to keep my wife from having a relapse of her cancer, (2 so far )and buying her lots of ALTA's "healing" tincture with 80% CBD and 20% THC , just mentioning it, not plugging it!! and learning from this web site to grow, and waiting for SOHUM seeds to come out with the next batch of Harle-TSU strain
HAd we known then what we know now, we would have been feeding her large quantities of CBD/THC tinctures to keep the killer at bay.
I wish you all our love and prayers and hope you do not find any disrespect in what I say to you. it's not my intention
all our best brother