Well, like they say, stupid people enjoy nonsensical gossip, so it doesn't surprise me what someone might have told you
If you think a taboo against discussing anything is off limits, you don't know me very well. My "fascination with rape" - oh, you make it sound so bad and incriminating when you put it like that, I'm sure that wasn't your intention though.. - you mean my "fascination with human psychology, which would include things like sexual abuse"?
How would you expect to solve anything if you aren't allowed to talk about it?
Or the answers being given are insufficient. What I am being told is that the shame and embarrassment of being raped is strong enough for some people to not report it and let their attacker go free. I accept that statistically, a small fraction of rape victims might feel this way. The argument coming from your side seems to be that this is extremely common; common enough to infect people with opinions like Flaming Pie's - where even talking about rape somehow makes you suspect.
As I said before, if I were ever raped, the last thing I would do is let the guy go. You can believe me or not on that one
I don't think I'm being insensitive at all.
Why are you being so sensitive?