were u ever bullied?

[clownfreak9000]

In school, work , anytime

i was by one dick face for no reason, he would always try to get me to fight him idk why? I'm assuming he has a small dick. he still talks shit but is unaware i lift wieghts now. he used to always hit me to.

 

[GOD HERE]

I think everyone encounters it at some point. I never dealt with it after 7th grade or so, I only dealt with it from one psycho when I moved to a new school.

 

[Winter Woman]

Want more abuse just wander over to the political section and talk to Uncle Buck.

 

[~CReePeR~]

Lifting weights wont help you in a fight.
I will give you the best advice I can here.
Most Bullies don't want to actually fight. They try to pick on the smallest and lest likely person to fight back.

I always tell people that have issues and I did this myself. I would just fight the person. Fear is a good thing, Just make sure you fight and dont be afraid to lose. Protect yourself and make sure you put up one hell of a fight. If it is a hard fight for him, he will never pick on you again and no one else will either. And you never know, You may even win or Call his bluff in front of everybody.
a Few things to do during a fight. Try to break his nose. if you break his nose the fight is over. Never punch towards the ground, Use hammer fists instead. Always protect yourself and never turn your back.
Nothing is cheap in a street fight. But try not to start off with a kick to the balls.

GOOD LUCK!!!

 

[Dogenzengi]

I was bullied for years as a Kid, it had a Large impact on how I viewed the World.
When I was old enough to drive I started to study Martial Arts.
I stayed training 17 years thru a few schools as I moved around.
I stopped at 31 when My daughter was born.

Weight lifting is great for your body but it is no help if you don't understand combat in some way.
for a man of Peace, Aikido the Art based in Love And Harmony is the way to go, If you were my friend I would take you to find A good teacher. ( really one of the most important things is a quality teacher )

hitting him him would not be half as satisfying as pinning him to the ground with pain but no damage and making him scream like a Bitch.

During the most difficult part of my training my teacher would put us in pain until we admitted to killing JFK.
I was born the same year he was killed but for 7 years I admitted to being his killer just to get out of pain.

once understood Aiki arts will give you superior physical control of a person or persons
who attack you because they are under the impression you are weak.
that perception is a great strength if you know how yo use it.
find A School, it's fun it's good for your body and mind and no one will touch you unless you want them too.
Peace,

 

[SnapsProvolone]

Doesn't take much strength to throat chop the dumbass. He will never expect you to stand up to him.

 

[BBbubblegum]

Find the nearest Brazillian Jiu Jitsu acadamey and go train. Easily the most useful Martial Art you can ever learn. Being able to defend yourself against almost anyone is one of the best feelings ever.

 

[clownfreak9000]

I like the idea of aiki

 

[GOD HERE]

Fuck martial arts, you'll just get bullied more. What you do is let the little bitch make fun of you in public, then when everyone's standing around and he thinks he's got you, give him a solid right hook. If he doesn't go down, just keep going. Problem solved.

 

[Kontraband]

Weightlifting is good to stay toned but you need to experience combat on a regular basis for a while before you can be an effective fighter.

The thing that gets most people, even giant buff dudes, is fight or flight factor. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fight-or-flight_response
It will screw anyone and leave them panting and tired before they even throw a punch. Lots of sparring makes fighting normal and your mind no longer freaks out and leaves you panic ridden.
(that's how boxers can fight 12 rounds and not be breathing heavy for the interview at the end) A lot of it is conditioning but not all, it's mental.

The fastest route to not being bullied anymore is joining a boxing gym, mma gym, kickboxing, muay thai etc and going often. Something where you can get some hard sparring in after training for a while.

I did kung fu, tae kwon do and judo for years before I started boxing. Boxing was at a completely different level brutality wise and pretty much removed any fear of fighting after a year or so.
The kung fu and tae kwon do was bullshit really. Could have been my schools, who knows but I don't recommend it.

If you think about it, fighting is kinda like growing MJ. You can have a room with 10 1000 watt HIDs, the best nutrients, killer hydro setup etc but if you've never actually grown, you're not going to be able to anything with it. It's all about experience. If you want to be able to defend yourself, you're going to need some experience. You get that at gyms and dojos.

 

[blackforest]

Good ol trusty Krav Maga always works! Go for the eye, nose or throat.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NAUhmEMFOlY

 

[SnapsProvolone]

Some people don't want to invest so much time just to put a smackdown on some low IQ mouth breathing bully. Most people that are bullied would dislike the pain involved in combat classes. May as well get your ass whipping from a bully for free.

 

[kinetic]

Kung Fu training takes a special person to really make it effective. Also the teacher should have a solid backround in Wing Chun and Jeet Kune Do to really make it combative at all. The JKD must also be the evolved variety that continued to incorporate the ground game that bruce was really just getting to in regards to adding it. Krav Maga is great as well.

Any martial arts can be a great way to elevate confidence and that alone is a great deterrent. Posture is important as well. I had a student with ADHD that seemed to have it under control after 3 months of dedication to the martial arts.

I would have definitely added more ground game when I was younger.

 

[AimAim]

In school, work , anytime .

I was lucky in that I was always the biggest kid in class. I never got picked on and lucky for me as I'm a lover not a fighter. Never struck another person in anger my entire life. Nor got struck, which was even better. Amazing actually. It was the 70's, love and peace and all that, fighting was not cool.

 

[Singlemalt]

It sounds to me like you need short term/ immediate advice; its your own mind. If you are fed up then get your mind right, you have to do this proper so it ends now. This is a dance that you and he have apparently performed before, so you should basically know the progression...this time you change your moves. Don't show your cards, don't act any different, don't act tough; you've been through this previously so you know how it goes. When it gets to the point that he physically threatens you or makes a move, unload on him....don't threaten, don't posture...full on instant berserker. Do break his nose with your left and simultaneously with the right hit him right below the throat. Play it through in your mind prior

 

[wyteberrywidow]

Fuck martial arts, you'll just get bullied more. What you do is let the little bitch make fun of you in public, then when everyone's standing around and he thinks he's got you, give him a solid right hook. If he doesn't go down, just keep going. Problem solved.

Lol I agree.

 

[SnapsProvolone]

To stop a bully you don't have to win the fight, just showing them you will fight gains respect and they will seek softer targets.

 

[wyteberrywidow]

To stop a bully you don't have to win the fight, just showing them you will fight gains respect and they will seek softer targets.

In some cases. In other cases you'll just be made the bitch!

 

[SnapsProvolone]

In some cases. In other cases you'll just be made the bitch!

Well you do need to make it painful. Make em pay the tax if their gonna whoop your ass is what my dad always said. I didn't win all the fights I was in but I did levy a hefty tax.

 

[DMTER]

its all in confidence fella's....you can't be bullied if you don't let people bully you...

maybe thats truth or just the acid talking right now...

Never had the problem anyone who tried was met with a smile, confidence and love...you can't beat up smiles, love and confidence///lovin you all