Hi bro, so sorry to hear of your latest hardships. If I weren't in the same damned boat I'd offer more help than a word. Not down to ramen yet, but no income since Nov of last year, thanks to the wonderful state of Ca and the institutions it funds (ie worker's comp, State Fund insurance) who've done a helluva a job fucking up the life we spent 25+ years building.
All I can say is hang in there, lean on those you love the most, and things eventually get better. God, I hope so! PEACE! DT