Sorry missed your previous bit. One way to wire your standard cfl... Use old lamps and the cords from them all intact. Basically break it down till you have just the cable.
Its pretty obvious what happened here. Postal worker recognized the address and took the seeds.`I would try and have your seeds shipped in by other means.
Sativa's usually take longer to show sex in my past experience. I also think they were kind of young at a 4 weeks old to start flowering. Maybe 6 weeks is better.
CFL's don't have much output and depth penetration. They will flower based on the 12/12 light schedule but the buds will not be as good as growing under an HPS or direct sunlight for that matter.