ouch, that sucks dude, but atleast the plant isnt a total lost, pull it and dry it, hermie smokes just as well as fems but i wouldnt let it go too far!
i would worry about the feds when you are shipping meds to yourself. definately choose an alternative carrier than USPS, but even then you are croosing state lines and thats where the feds are just waiting for a screw up!
i think the more attention people bring to their grows and to the scene going on the more the feds are going to get involved. They dont want to miss out on their "share" (aka taxes) ya know!