4th year anniversary, which dildo to buy ;)

Winter Woman

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I think the reference is correct, a GOOD lay. But, I do enjoy toys.
Oh I don't doubt a vibrator will beat a man to delivery on an orgasm, 10 out of 10. 100 out of 100. A million, out of a million. But in my opinion, SEX, is NOT, ALL ABOUT THE ORGASM. Women disgust me. You enjoy that orgasm girl. It will NEVER, give you the sensuality, the pure bliss, of a GOOD lay.
 

Tenner

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First LMFAO , not sure if im flattered or insuted that u would direct such a question at me, honestly i prefer doing it myself, toys can be fun if someone else is using them on u or adding them into the mix. Myself for my first one i picked and average size silicone vibrator, picking one with various speeds is key ;) plastic or glass ones tend to be too cold , silicone seems the best, plus its' diswasher safe ;) lol, pick one shaped like a penis, keep it simple for her first one, don't complicate it lol, best of luck Tenner and happy anniversary!! Im kinda jealous of ur happiness !!! lol
Haha the dilemma! Sorry April but you do strike me as a horny girl somehow :) I hope its as compliment as can be! :)

By various speeds do you mean an adjustable speed one or one that has different vibe patterns? The one I posted has a twist on its bottom that adjusts it but only speed.

Thanks for wishing me a happy one! You know how relationships are though, sometimes boring and sometimes fun. Trying to spice it up as you see :D
 

Tenner

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Go Hard Or Go Home. I would not buy my girl anything less than a $100 Orgasm Device.
I used to buy her £50-£120 gifts before which were sadly all jewellery :(

Not so much money in university now, if she realised the gift was expensive she would annoy the fuck out of me and tell me off saying she doesn`t need it and I should save my money :D No need for that is there hehe
 

EvolAlex

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Have you thought about getting a vibrating dick ring? Just a thought, so your not left out the equation.
 

bobtokes

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well i bring them in the shower sometimes and that can cause thm to die faster. the pocket rockets never last long. the cheap toys dont last. some of these toys come with a warranty because they always break. ask the manufacturer. if u get a year out of a toy, that's pretty good. i have a few that i use. it's nice to switch it up. i guess i am vibe addicted. i don't care, they r fun & cause no harm to anyone.
good for you, and long may they/it last ;-)
 

Hoenhiem

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not sure about where you are but in my neck of the world they are pricey as hell... for a good one. you dont want something that breaks after a couple tries. give her the gift that keeps giving. *multiple orgasms* aaaaand your welcome:hump:
 

dew-b

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The thread title says it all!

My girlfriend has never owned a dildo but I think its going to be a lot of fun. We already tried one of these:

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and its a load of fun!

April I`m relying on you the most! :)

I`m not planning on spending too much (we agreed on cheap gifts as we are both students) so don`t come in a diamond ring vibe :)

Mains or battery at least? lol

(shes aged 21 if that helps)
just make sure to get one the dog won't like. it will make for interasting converation if the dog brings. it out at thankgiving dinner.:shock:
 

Tenner

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Have you thought about getting a vibrating dick ring? Just a thought, so your not left out the equation.
I thought just like this at first but it wasn`t that fun for her, I quite liked the "buzz" though lol Not sure if it was that way because it was a cheap durex one but the gift is for her on our anniversary so best off getting a pointy thing ;)

Thanks for the advice everyone! :)
 

sunni

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ever herd of passion parties? thoes are the best if you have an area who has a seller if not check otut the website and order from there, they have dildos with butterflies on them tickerlers you name it! i bought this stuff and its powder tastes like cotton candy totally edible! they also have this roll on body purfume and it smells different on every person makes u wanna have sex withthem;)
 

TheFaintingGoat

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but you can have both. i always use my vibe with my bf and it mkaes the sex a million times more sensual because i want him that much more. it's not an alternative, it's completmentary.
Then maybe you should hone up on your communication skills and let him know how to give you a good lay. What are you, like 18? I think it would be pretty damn insulting if what he was born with isn't complimentary enough. Is oral not complimentary enough? Maybe if you'd tell him instead of looking to a damn piece of plastic. YOU are the reason guys are insecure. I feel bad your husband is too much of a pussy to tell you that.
 

Tenner

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ever herd of passion parties? thoes are the best if you have an area who has a seller if not check otut the website and order from there, they have dildos with butterflies on them tickerlers you name it! i bought this stuff and its powder tastes like cotton candy totally edible! they also have this roll on body purfume and it smells different on every person makes u wanna have sex withthem;)
Wow they have a vast selection and the prices are pretty decent even for multimode ones. Thanks!! :)
 

Tenner

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Then maybe you should hone up on your communication skills and let him know how to give you a good lay. What are you, like 18? I think it would be pretty damn insulting if what he was born with isn't complimentary enough. Is oral not complimentary enough? Maybe if you'd tell him instead of looking to a damn piece of plastic. YOU are the reason guys are insecure. I feel bad your husband is too much of a pussy to tell you that.
Shhh shhh

You seem angry about something, are you insecure? :)

All we are doing is talking about sex toys.... Then comes: 1)I have a small dick, 2)I`m not enough, 3)Its all maryjanes fault.

Are you guys for real? 4 years of banging with my girlfriend and I think she would enjoy a dildo and doesn`t have the wits to get one for herself....

We often look at each other and play around with ourselves... she could use her dildo and stick it in my mouth while I`m playing around... mmmmm

oh yes! :)
 

medicalmaryjane

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yup. i am an 18 year old who is married and likes ot make men insecure. i also love compliments (which btw aren't the same as complements).

dont worry buddy, i am sure u can figure out how to pleasure a woman if you do a little reading and research. i am very open, he gets to touch. we just enjoy it having a vibe in the mix. most of the women i knnow do, many are just too shy to admit it so they accept the lesser satisfaction. i need to have an O if i am going to do it. if my guy didn't allow me to use a vibe, i'd have to find a new guy.
 
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