That's the attitude that will make it work! And remember, even when things go badly, you grow in ways that make it worth while. My wife almost died a couple years ago, was only saved by an amputation (Helping to manage the pain from that is why I started growing in the first place), and even though it was the darkest time in our lives (She was hospitalized for a month, and the entire time I stayed on a little military style fold out cot next to her bed, they couldn't have gotten me away from her side if they had a gun to my head), the bond that we have after going through it together is absolutely indescribable. It did as much, if not more, to cement the bonds of our marriage than any of the amazingly happy times we've had. So I hope everything goes awesome, but just remember when things go bad that you really can walk away from it stronger. So yeah, sorry for the tangent, it just reminds me of the way I feel about my lady! Best wishes!