A Question for Men

Do you feel it's your responsibility to refrain from hooking up with taken women?


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Padawanbater2

Well-Known Member
Do you feel it is your responsibility to refrain from hooking up with another mans woman?

Keep in mind, this question applies to instances when you are only already fully aware that the girl has a man.

Or do you feel that if it wasn't with you it would just be with someone else, and it's more the woman's responsibility to be faithful?

What about if you have a friend you know is interested in a girl, do you feel it's your responsibility to stay back and let him try his game or every man for himself?

Interested in opinions about these questions... I seem to get mixed answers, so leave some reasons why you feel the way you do.
 

Johnny Retro

Well-Known Member
Having morals id say dont do it. when a guy comes on to your girl its fuckin annoying. But in reality, ive done it plenty of times
 

BadAndy

Well-Known Member
I guess my answer would start with this:
If it was one of my friends g/f or wives then no I would not make the move on her.
If it was some random girl I met at a bar and I dont know the person then the door is open.

maybe not the most responsible answer but its a honest one.
 

PeachOibleBoiblePeach#1

Well-Known Member
Sure I would and have,,,That's how We both got out of crappy relations,,,We are married now and Happy as Ughh,,,Married people are,,,lol,,,J/K. There is a lot that can and will go wrong so be prepared for the conseqences tho'!!!!,,,,But we are a pretty open couple, some people are and others are not,,,Depend's on what your motives are,,,Sex is good IMO,,,Being Honest is better. Just be prepared to pay your dues they will follow!!!!!!
 

poonjoon

Well-Known Member
if it's my boys woman, no. though i've fucked my boys girl but right after they broke up and she came on to me..and it was two girls and BOTH were his exes lolll

as for the original question...no i dont feel like it's MY responsibility. if the girls goin around slappin her pussy it's not my problem. if the girl wants me, it's not my problem either. if the girls not faithful, that's not my problem. none of these are my problem, they're HIS (as in the girls man's) problem.
 

LightningMcGreen

Active Member
There's alotta variables with this one...is this girl someone I've known for awhile and taken an interest in, or just some sleeze I just met while out at the bar? If it's the latter, then yeah I probably would...chances are this isn't the first time she will have been unfaithful, plus if this is something she does alot, her boyfriend obviously doesn't give a shit either...after all, if it's just for some one night fun, who better to have it with than a total whore? :hump:

But if I've known the girl for awhile, or her guy, or I was hoping the hook up would lead to something more, then no I wouldn't...because I have respect for friends (I wouldn't want all my friends tryin to throw their stick at my lady, even though it's happened)...also, if she's willin to cheat on her dude with me, chances are she'd cheat on me with someone else.

Ultimately though...everyone is responsible for their own actions. But either way, if you DO do this, and the bf finds out, it's kinda like you did him a favor. I mean, he obviously wasn't fulfilling his ladies desires, or she just wasn't into him that much; either way, the relationship was doomed.
 

brownbearclan

Active Member
Trust is a two way street, if someone's a cheater then it doesn't really matter what commitment they have. Outright trying to bang someone's wife/girlfriend is lame shit but everything happens for a reason. When I met my wife she was married, I wasn't looking to hook up with her at all, it just happened and we fell in love. We've been together for over 15 years now. =)

I guess my answer would start with this:
If it was one of my friends g/f or wives then no I would not make the move on her.
If it was some random girl I met at a bar and I dont know the person then the door is open.

maybe not the most responsible answer but its a honest one.
You saved me the trouble of typing it out even though I voted yes lol.
 

Cali.Grown>408

Well-Known Member
if she's willing, then her man aint doing something right..and why is that my problem if im really feeling her? the only thing i hate about girls who are in relationships is..i dont want no beezy who just had her mans dick in her mouth the other night..besides that tho it's whatever..i mean i feel for her man if he's all in love, but that's life and shit happens.
 

brandon.

Well-Known Member
If it's a friend, HELL NO! If it's a random chick... if she's willing to cheat, it's gonna be you or someone else. Might as well be the one getting your dick wet :)
 
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