a question mainly for the guys...

bubbleberry twist said:

im not sure but its kinda funny how not 1 single guy has given a straight answer to the actual question... lol round about answers, i take it no1 wants 2 hurt anyones feelings but this is wut i say... skinny girls r ok for arm candy but thats about it! unless their personality has established them as a kind person.. but remember... big girls kno how to cook, take care of their man and no how to give really good head!! lol im all about the important things in life! haha! if it were up to me i'd rather b with a chick that makes me happy regardless of her looks or size!

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Okay, time for a straight answer then, amirite?

I would take the big girl in the question originally asked. Hands down. Mostly because I like big girls, and because it was said that she had a cute face.

i'd just get to know them and then bang their attractive sisters.

then again, i'm currently dating a sock full of bacon...

beauty beats all hands down, weight is irrevelant . I've seen so many beautiful girls that were self concsious about their weight and did'nt realize how attractive they were. And on the other hand I've seen a lot of "beautiful" girls that were so self absorbed that it was a huge turn-off. Real is sexy , fake is not. just my 2 cents

I'm gonna say that my standards are above both an ugly girl with a great body and a great face on a poor body. Though if you get the big girl to start a sport you can get the best of both worlds.

Fat, skinny, pretty, ugly, whatever. I want the one that's best in and out of bed. After an extra lame day at work, I want the one that will greet me at the door naked with food and weed. That's a hot chick right there.

Grubs said:

Fat, skinny, pretty, ugly, whatever. I want the one that's best in and out of bed. After an extra lame day at work, I want the one that will greet me at the door naked with food and weed. That's a hot chick right there.

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I'd make a lot of concessions for that kind of service.

dahamma said:

beauty beats all hands down, weight is irrevelant . I've seen so many beautiful girls that were self concsious about their weight and did'nt realize how attractive they were. And on the other hand I've seen a lot of "beautiful" girls that were so self absorbed that it was a huge turn-off. Real is sexy , fake is not. just my 2 cents

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Weight is not Irrelevant. Someone who doesn't take care of themselves is not attractive. They may be cute underneath that double chin, but until it's gone they're just an Ok looking fat chick. Most truly beautiful women don't see themselves as such. They're okay...or they could stand to lose a few. Most of the Bitchy "Hot" girls you see. Are the ones with fake tits, hair, and nails and spend HOURS in front of the mirror.

Biggravy22 said:

Weight is not Irrelevant. Someone who doesn't take care of themselves is not attractive. They may be cute underneath that double chin, but until it's gone they're just an Ok looking fat chick. Most truly beautiful women don't see themselves as such. They're okay...or they could stand to lose a few. Most of the Bitchy "Hot" girls you see. Are the ones with fake tits, hair, and nails and spend HOURS in front of the mirror.

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True but I'm talking about the girls that are over-weight but are still really attractive. There are over-weight girls that are self concious and have low self esteem, and it shows . And there are also over-weight girls that are confident and "carry their weight well". they are the ones that I'm talking about

Skinny does not necessarily equal beautiful.It's in the eye of the beholder.Some guys are just crazy for big girls.

Stoney McFried said:

Skinny does not necessarily equal beautiful.It's in the eye of the beholder.Some guys are just crazy for big girls.

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What she said.

Exactly. It's a matter of personal preference. I've been with girls from size zero on up to size 16-18, and EVERY size in between. I had a few skinny butterfaces and a few heavier broads with fine as hell faces. And to be honest, the physical attributes of any of them wasn't very important, really. After a while of dating, the real person will eventually surface. But I'm not sure if Sarah meant; which type of chick most guys would rather fuck, or develop a meaningful relationship with. And therein lies the reason I'm not really one for one night stands or fuck buddies. And I can't do the "anger bang" thing if she's a bitch. I would, however, love it if a girl had the same taste in music as i do, read once in a while, had a good vocabulary, could spell words correctly, could "hold her own" in a conversation, and didn't need damn near every joke on t.v. or elsewhere explained to her. Nothing worse than the ever increasing recurrance of "I don't get it...." Or "What are we listening to?" Maybe if you shut the fuck up and listen for more than a minute, I wouldn't have to tell you.....FUCK~!!!!! But I digress. I like them all.... until the magic wears off and they show me just how stupid they really are. But if she doesn't, she's a keeper, whether she's bigger or petite.

Being a guy, id have to say which ever one was naked faster.

But on the bright side big girls will be like your lap dog if you treat em good, where your size 2 girlfriend with fake tits would gladly screw another man if he has a dolla to spare.

My 2 cents there!

Yay for big women

Personally, I prefer a mate with some intelligence and a sense of humor. Fat, skinny, white, black, short, tall..whatever..at the end of the day, I just want 2 be with the one who will love me and make me laugh.

Right on greene you sir speak words of wisdom

Are we talking about relationships or casual sex?

For me the discussion is about relationships because I don't do the casual sex thing.

If the discussion is about casual sex then their body type is irrelevant. The same principle applies if they look like Frankenstein's Monster.

I can't help but think of the old joke:

Q: What do a moped and a fat girl have in common?

A: Both are fun to ride, but you don't want your friends to find out about it.

I think it all kinda makes sense in the first question.....

Nice body/Ugly face tells me that the person looking is superficial, because most 'emotionless sex' is based around body image... thus the saying "You don't look at the mantelpiece when your stoking the fire"

More to love body/Pretty face tells me that the person is more attracted on an emotional level and draws more eye contact as your attention comes back to the face.... and the 'eyes are the window to the soul' they say

But yes, beauty is only skin deep.
My ex girlfriend was physically stunning both face and body....

Lots of modeling and promotional crap got to her head over time and she cared more about what she looked like and how she was perceived, that she became so shallow and superficial in the end that she was grotesque through my eyes....and looks were just simply not going to cut it...

Women are the same, you see a guy that looks like a condom full of rocks, gorgeous to look upon, but absolutely LOVE THEMSELVES... they are the pinnacle of vanity... and therefore they are simply not attractive

Its all about perception...

sarah22 said:

if you had the choice between an ugly chick with a nice body...or a fat chick who was really pretty...what would u choose?

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Can I take both at the same time?

sarah22 said:

if you had the choice between an ugly chick with a nice body...or a fat chick who was really pretty...what would u choose?

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1 excludes the other...

if shes fat, she most likely is also fat in her face, which makes her ugly, to me.

so id say the one thats only ugly, and not fat and ugly...

this of course all only if they have a identical personality

First off fat and thick are two different things. Girls need to understand its not your weight its your shape. I love thick & curvaceous women. Fact of the matter is a girl looking hot only make you want to F*** them and even then it could be bad sex (Plastic F Dolls). I like to have as many super hot girl friends as possible (Not that hard cause Super Hotties are like MW2, easy to play) but I want my wife to be a normal sweet girl that I can make something with. Personally I think I would pick the girl with the body cause I don't like fat girls or let me say I am not attracted to them (which is crazy cause I am fat and I want to like them, I just cant) We don't have any control over what we are attracted to. If we did population would be really out of control. I would love to have the power to make myself attracted to every type of woman. Toccara Jones from Top Model season 3 I what I call thick and I love it. She has lost some weight now but when she first got on that show she was T.T.T.T (Thicker Than That Thang) Oh yeah baby. Also it has alot to do with the way you carry yourself.(one of those things I cant explain)