in your experience how often does the seed turn out male, i would hate to use a plant from a fem seed as a mother plant to find out shes a male and lose months, thanks
Depends where you get the seed from. Most quality places have as low as a 98% success rate, while some have a 99.99%. So between 1 out of 50, or 1 out of 10000, I'd say you have a good shot that it'll be female. I've used 100s of fem seeds, and none have been male, and I don't think it's me having good luck. That being said, I hope you're not the 1 out of 10000. Let us know if you are!
In my personal experience I have 100% success with fem seeds, but I buy them from a reputable breeder. Not a single male/herm (yet) out of about 50 seeds.