what you are seeing is pics with good cameras. most pics i take of my buds i use the macro setting. which makes the buds appear a little bigger then they really are. in the magazines and what not i used to read back in the day i used to drool all over the pics. but then when i started growing i realized that isnt always the case. its kinda like trick photography in a way. most buds size depend on many factors, light, strain, medium. but average buds are about 2-3 inches in length and about 2-3 inches in girth. that is bout average. but i have seen many bigger. it depends a lot on your lights. indoor growers get smaller buds generally then outdoor growers. thats the rule of thumb anyways. many factors play out in a grow. what are you looking at? what were your expectations? throw up some pics so we can let you know how your doing. buds swell the last few weeks. maybe you have some late finishers. i have a Skunk plant that is in week 7, and i have other plants that are in week 6. and the Skunk hardly has any frost on it compared to the other plants that have been in there less time. just be patient. one day you will be growing massive colas too. just takes a little time to get it down. topping plants also is a factor. the more you top, the more tops you have, but the less you top, th ebigger your few colas are. usually the side branching is the smaller nugs and your main stalk is the main cola. like a SOG grow.